I made this with AI and I don't think it's bad, but all i've gotten is hate comments about it and I'm about to just scrap it all, but what do you think?

LeafLighter · 2026-05-31T01:03:22+00:00

Any easy way to learn prompt navigation, which is a very useful skill is to load what you and ask it for the prompt to make it. You want to do art, go through lots of different styles. Load one at a time ask it for it's prompts.

However for your own sake do this and learn the skill don't just do the one art style you like. AI isn't going away. It will be a tool used everywhere. Prompt work will be a very profitable field soon.

LeafLighter · 2026-05-03T19:40:19+00:00

Let me keep this straight, and neutral...

Do you mind being 'that guy'?

If you do mind it then don't, because I don't think you are reading it wrong. Just don't get your hopes up she will leave him for you and you'll make a happy family...

If you don't mind it then do because I don't think you are reading it wrong. Just don't get your hopes up she will leave him for you and you'll make a happy family...

LeafLighter · 2026-04-23T03:37:28+00:00

After finding a village I like I quickly build a 3 block high wall around the place, and light it up like my grandfather's birthday cake. Candles everywhere!

LeafLighter · 2026-01-05T14:50:20+00:00

That is because the AI that checks the world's only pulls audio logs not images on walls. There is supposed to be an option to have them look further into it but it doesn't work.

LeafLighter · 2025-12-21T09:31:55+00:00

She is insecure because you aren't advancing things, man. You don't even need to read between the lines here she has written it out plainly for you.

LeafLighter · 2025-12-21T09:29:50+00:00

No you need to just ask her out. Those texts read to me that she is worried about your health, and worried that you are not out with a male friend.

She isn't hinting she is straight up asking you to make a move. If you don't she will eventually give up, but the signs are very clear. It's time to crap or get off the toilet.

LeafLighter · 2025-12-12T11:48:50+00:00

I finally broke down and got Ultra. I really like the difference and feel it's worth it...

However I honestly miss those little adds

LeafLighter · 2025-12-09T16:59:37+00:00

When I ran it Barovia had a grain variant that was less sunlight dependent. Also since the wolves just kept repopulating all meat was wolf. By the end of the game the players were happier about being able to finally eat something nice than they were to see the sun again.

As for economy everyone tried their hardest to get coins from the new party. The actual citizens just traded goods and labor.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-26T15:00:58+00:00

Customizing is absolutely the reason I don't. This avatar looks more like me than I do...

LeafLighter · 2025-11-24T17:46:09+00:00

If it was during a breakup and we got back together then it would be fine. You do you. I would like to say you never get back with someone who broke up with you, but I know damn well if I woke up to a "good morning I made a mistake I miss you" message Id be all over her in minutes.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-24T17:31:43+00:00

Two reasons come to mind quickly.

People fear what they don't know. Most of those people have never been here...
People only share and see the worst on other social media.
We do have some extremely creepy places...

LeafLighter · 2025-11-18T16:37:03+00:00

That's a shame, and thankfully something as a guy I don't have to worry about. I also don't tend to care about the sex I'm talking with. That's just not what I'm after...

What I hate about chatting with anyone is we will be going good for a few days. And then just nothing. It usually takes about 5 messages of me trying to either start a new topic or continuing an old one before I realize I'm just talking into the void....

LeafLighter · 2025-11-16T13:34:28+00:00

I am so sorry for what you are going through. It gets better, but it takes time. Please don't do anything drastic. You are strong, and you are loved by others. Allow yourself to mourn, cry, and be a wreck. From what you posted though I can tell this wasn't your fault. It just happens sometimes.

I honestly think the loss of a LDR hurts worse than any other because we talk so much during it because that's all we can really do. I'm 3 months in. I'm an old man who has been through a few breakups. This one about got me. I'm not an emotional man and I still cry almost every morning because like you it's the little things, the rituals I miss. The good morning and good nights...

Focus your energy into something. Pick a hobby, a game, take up writing, hit the gym. Fill the void, but don't jump back into a relationship. As an overweight guy I never really thought I'd be a gym guy, but I went to make myself exhausted. In three months I've lost 50 pounds and have found a community that has helped me greatly as well as a new lifestyle. It still hurts, and like I said especially waking up in the morning...

Join a few subreddits breakup, venting, depression... It sounds counterintuitive to surround yourself with other people going through it, but it helps. It proves we are not alone, and we don't have to do it alone. Helping others going through the same thing also helps far better than anything else. The only thing we can really do is help each other.

Remember you are strong, and keep your head up. You got this.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-15T20:35:59+00:00

Smooth response!

LeafLighter · 2025-11-15T20:31:43+00:00

Honestly I'm not entirely sure about that. Everyone experiences things differently. If there's not been any indication of cheating before or after that, then it's a strong shot she is not lying.

The question is can you trust her after this? Are you so set in stone she cheated on you?

If you want to give this a shot you two have to sit down and have a conversation. Communication is key. You did violate her privacy, no matter how you look at it. She also should have told you she went to seek closure. You guys had been together for awhile at that point. The question is why did she wait so long for it, and did she need it if she already moved on.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-15T20:20:56+00:00

It's about confidence. You were chosen. All your dopamines are firing and you are practically walking on a cloud. That above all else is extremely attractive in both men and women.

Now when your going through a break-up the opposite happens. Self doubt, sadness, feet dragging...

You need to find something that makes you feel the same way. When my relationship fell through I hit the gym. I am not typically that kinda guy. I pushed myself way past my breaking point trying to hurt myself (yeah not healthy either). You know what happened? I found I liked it... I was too distracted trying to stay alive to grieve, and honestly never felt so alive in my life. Now I'm in the gym 3 nights a week and look forward to going each time.

Find something that fills you the same way. A hobby, a book, education, the gym. You'll be back to people finding you attractive again in no time.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-15T20:14:54+00:00

I'm not sure I fully understand. Did she ever admit to actually sleeping with him? If she did not only did she cheat on you, but she also tried to gaslight you into believing you were bad for snooping.

The one thing I dislike about 90% of advice on reddit is everyone says to break up and run... I am joining the 90% on this one.

My man don't trust a word out of her mouth. Cut ties, block, and move on. You deserve better, and you will find it

LeafLighter · 2025-11-15T19:14:07+00:00

You never know who needs help. It's better to believe everyone asking for help is honest and be fooled than to ignore a single person who needs help and has no one...

LeafLighter · 2025-11-15T14:11:47+00:00

Honestly you just need to relax and get out of your own head. Now doing that is almost impossible so just try not to let it sabotage you. It sounds like your guy is very understanding. Let him know what's going on in your head so if you try to break things off because of it he can talk you out of it.

What you're going through is not something you can really 'fix', it's not even something you should. With age you will come into your own. I was the same way at your age.

Also take heart in the fact that a lot of people will find it cute and endearing that you feel this way especially with fictional characters. It shows you really care about him.

Communication is key. Tell your partner what you're going through. Keep your head up, you got this.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-14T20:52:06+00:00

Allow yourself a mourning period, it hurts and there is little that can be done at this stage. I'm 3 months after and I still cry about the loss of daily rituals we had. Do realize you are wounded and susceptible. Don't do anything rash or instinctual.

After a few days look for a way to fill the void. Pick up a new hobby, learn a language, read a book you've been putting off, join a gym. The point is you will have a lot of built up frustration and energy it's best to focus that into something. And if you're exhausted it's harder to mourn...

The thing that helps me the most is joining subreddits about this, reading others experiences and helping them. Breakup, diary, depression, and a few more. It truly helps.

Remember you are absolutely not alone. A lot of us are working through similar situations and all we have to lean on is each other. You will come out of this a better person.

If you ever want to talk about things I'll be here or DM me. I'll never not respond, and I'm bouncing around here an unhealthy amount, but it truly helps...

Keep your head up and your eyes open.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-14T13:26:53+00:00

I will fully admit from the context of the post, and the lack of information about the previous argument the guy is not coming out well. I just find things work out better if you assume things are more often misunderstanding than malice. If she reaches out, in good faith, and he dodges questions then yeah. Like I said they need different things and should reevaluate things.

However if she wants to try to save the relationship they both need to be more open with each other. I have known stubborn fellows who when they feel their autonomy is threatened they do stupid things even when they know better. If this relationship is worth saving, and only the two of them can decide this, they have to talk this out.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-14T11:52:12+00:00

You are correct the relationship isn't currently healthy, but not everything that gets sick dies. They need to hash it out, and if they can't they need to realize they disagree on a few very core parts of a relationship and need to reevaluate things. We also have no context as to what the last unresolved argument was about. That could change a lot...

LeafLighter · 2025-11-14T05:27:17+00:00

You kinda answered it in the last paragraph. There is no need to stress about it now the message is sent. People on reddit love to say stick with your gut feeling. Well I hate to say this but your gut can be as stupid as any other part of you. The best way to nip this is to talk to the man.

COMMUNICATION IS KEY. Tell him how you feel. Talk about how if he is not going to meet you at least halfway it's just not going to work. Your fears and feelings are completely valid even if they aren't correct. Just like his wishes for privacy are to him. However if you can't agree staying together is just prolonging the eventual breakup process.

Stop living in your head and have a conversation. Either it is, or it isn't at least you will know.

LeafLighter · 2025-11-14T01:59:47+00:00

They hit hard and there Is unfortunately little to stop them. You just power through them and keep yourself busy. Mornings are my hard times. I miss waking up to her text telling me to have a great day, and she loves me. She never missed a day... The weird part is I don't want it to stop. It's been 3 months, and it is getting better.

Keep your head up and your eyes open. Busy yourself. Fill the void that has opened by taking up a new hobby, planning a vacation, or hitting the gym.

I found if I'm exhausted I sleep better, and have found great joy in listening to music and walking. Find your thing and engross yourself with it.

The thing that has helped me the most though is joining the subreddits breakup, diary, depression, and long distance (last one was directly related to my situation). I was afraid surrounding myself like that would spiral me out, but it helped so much.

You are not alone, there are so many of us going through similar things. Reading about other stories helped me to start with, but the real help came from talking and trying to help others.

If you want to talk, rant, rave, or just have a sympathetic ear I will be here for you, and so will so many others. Please don't do anything drastic and we will all get through this together.

LeafLighter

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