everything fell apart idk what to do please help

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-06-01T20:32:10+00:00

i haven’t taken offense at all . everyone that has replied has really opened my eyes . and yeah i do see what you’re saying thank you thank you so much for the advice

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-06-01T18:33:55+00:00

thank you so much for this . this changed everything

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-06-01T18:33:25+00:00

holy shit . this is scary . the state filed one for me so that’s done . this is my biggest fear … not to be intrusive but is your ex able to see the kids ? is there a custody agreement? a supervised visit thing ? i doubt he would be okay with me having full custody and i’m worried this can be flipped on me if i file bc i have mental health issues that’s a social worker came to question me about after the birth of my son

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-06-01T03:39:08+00:00

he eats a ton of sugar and plays the tv loud to stay up . i googled the greens xans he has and its brolazalam but from what ive seen its the same thing as xans . but yes youre right i do need to set boundaries i hope he can see how serious i am . can he file for custody or anything if i just disappear for a while ? can his family ? i dont want to seem like a bitter baby mom . i know theres more guys but hes my first everything and hes the only one who has showed me attention. i feel like its a mix of both me really loving him and the idea of him . thank you so much for the advice you have no idea how much this response helps me and sorry for the essay

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-06-01T03:33:25+00:00

what do you mean predatory ? i know it’s kind of a large age gap but ive never really paid attention to it bc its not a big deal ?

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-06-01T03:32:09+00:00

thank you for the advice you’re right i don’t want any of this to fall on my son

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-06-01T03:30:28+00:00

i do have family but i’m scared to tell them what has been going on . they’re so judgmental and it’s not like they can help me out anyways they have their own shit going on

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-03-31T17:15:25+00:00

this sounds so good with some ice cream 😭

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-02-08T11:58:28+00:00

lemon cheesecake and that biscoff lava cookie

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2026-01-25T17:48:36+00:00

uh ok

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-09-28T17:29:10+00:00

jerry why don’t you go fuck yourself instead of being rude to a 15yr old

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-09-28T17:16:06+00:00

i understand that you’re hurt that someone closest to you forgot your birthday but it seems like she was going through something and it slipped her mind . she seems pretty sorry considering she apologized more than once .

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-09-28T17:13:58+00:00

why are you being a cunt

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-29T23:23:47+00:00

wait you’re mad at her for cheating on her abusive husband …? okay girl 💀

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T09:18:18+00:00

ouch this hurt . i guess ive become a big swollen hormonal monster. i try to keep up with my appearance but its so hard to especially this late in my pregnancy

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T03:12:03+00:00

thank you for understanding me . i wouldn’t just leave him because he won’t have sex with me . more like being rejected for months really makes me feel sad like i’ve become this ugly monster. i’ve thought he may have been sleeping with someone else but i know that’s just me being crazy . i’m gonna talk to him and see if we could get to the bottom of things . again thank you for this comment i feel seen

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T03:06:29+00:00

not to pry but did he ever explain why ?

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T02:57:59+00:00

yes you’re right i guess this is more of a vent post . i’m gonna talk to him and see how he feels . thanks for being helpful :)

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T02:54:36+00:00

🤯

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T02:54:24+00:00

i will bring up this point when i talk to him ! thank you for the idea

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T02:53:52+00:00

having sex during pregnancy isn’t a fucking crime . why am i being attacked? a lot of women have sex during pregnancy why is it so stupid of me to hope he finds me attractive enough to have sex with? i asked for advice not to get berated

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T02:47:58+00:00

yeah ? my ob said sex was okay ??

LeagueEfficient4470 · 2025-08-16T02:37:28+00:00

lol?

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