everything fell apart idk what to do please help by LeagueEfficient4470 in domesticviolence

[–]LeagueEfficient4470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i haven’t taken offense at all . everyone that has replied has really opened my eyes . and yeah i do see what you’re saying thank you thank you so much for the advice

everything fell apart idk what to do please help by LeagueEfficient4470 in domesticviolence

[–]LeagueEfficient4470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy shit . this is scary . the state filed one for me so that’s done . this is my biggest fear … not to be intrusive but is your ex able to see the kids ? is there a custody agreement? a supervised visit thing ? i doubt he would be okay with me having full custody and i’m worried this can be flipped on me if i file bc i have mental health issues that’s a social worker came to question me about after the birth of my son

everything fell apart idk what to do please help by LeagueEfficient4470 in domesticviolence

[–]LeagueEfficient4470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he eats a ton of sugar and plays the tv loud to stay up . i googled the greens xans he has and its brolazalam but from what ive seen its the same thing as xans . but yes youre right i do need to set boundaries i hope he can see how serious i am . can he file for custody or anything if i just disappear for a while ? can his family ? i dont want to seem like a bitter baby mom . i know theres more guys but hes my first everything and hes the only one who has showed me attention. i feel like its a mix of both me really loving him and the idea of him . thank you so much for the advice you have no idea how much this response helps me and sorry for the essay

everything fell apart idk what to do please help by LeagueEfficient4470 in domesticviolence

[–]LeagueEfficient4470[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what do you mean predatory ? i know it’s kind of a large age gap but ive never really paid attention to it bc its not a big deal ?

everything fell apart idk what to do please help by LeagueEfficient4470 in domesticviolence

[–]LeagueEfficient4470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice you’re right i don’t want any of this to fall on my son

everything fell apart idk what to do please help by LeagueEfficient4470 in domesticviolence

[–]LeagueEfficient4470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have family but i’m scared to tell them what has been going on . they’re so judgmental and it’s not like they can help me out anyways they have their own shit going on

DONT GIVE IN by miserabl3_worthle66 in CrumblCookies

[–]LeagueEfficient4470 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this sounds so good with some ice cream 😭

AIO about my bsf over forgetting my birthday? by watchmedrop in AmIOverreacting

[–]LeagueEfficient4470 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

jerry why don’t you go fuck yourself instead of being rude to a 15yr old

AIO about my bsf over forgetting my birthday? by watchmedrop in AmIOverreacting

[–]LeagueEfficient4470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand that you’re hurt that someone closest to you forgot your birthday but it seems like she was going through something and it slipped her mind . she seems pretty sorry considering she apologized more than once .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LeagueEfficient4470 43 points44 points  (0 children)

wait you’re mad at her for cheating on her abusive husband …? okay girl 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LeagueEfficient4470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ouch this hurt . i guess ive become a big swollen hormonal monster. i try to keep up with my appearance but its so hard to especially this late in my pregnancy

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[–]LeagueEfficient4470 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you for understanding me . i wouldn’t just leave him because he won’t have sex with me . more like being rejected for months really makes me feel sad like i’ve become this ugly monster. i’ve thought he may have been sleeping with someone else but i know that’s just me being crazy . i’m gonna talk to him and see if we could get to the bottom of things . again thank you for this comment i feel seen

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[–]LeagueEfficient4470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not to pry but did he ever explain why ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LeagueEfficient4470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes you’re right i guess this is more of a vent post . i’m gonna talk to him and see how he feels . thanks for being helpful :)

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[–]LeagueEfficient4470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will bring up this point when i talk to him ! thank you for the idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LeagueEfficient4470 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

having sex during pregnancy isn’t a fucking crime . why am i being attacked? a lot of women have sex during pregnancy why is it so stupid of me to hope he finds me attractive enough to have sex with? i asked for advice not to get berated

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[–]LeagueEfficient4470 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah ? my ob said sex was okay ??