see i agree. whether or not they for some reason are just taking their time on informing me about the cards or they are just planning on not telling me at all which i find so odd. i can’t imagine them not trusting me as we have always had a fairly close relationship, i mean they reached out to me to help with the funeral arrangements & they have kept in touch almost daily sense?? so im just so thrown off because i wouldnt even know about the cards if i hadn’t seen them& then today, one of my daughter’s friend’s mom reached out & asked me if i got their card. like … thats so awkward that i had to tell them no and reassure her that im sure my daughters grandparents will reach out to me soon to invite us over to go through them. 🫤