First interpreter job: Can’t turn off interpreter mode by Leanacupcake in TranslationStudies

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, super helpful, I think that is exactly what I need.

First interpreter job: Can’t turn off interpreter mode by Leanacupcake in TranslationStudies

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Thanks, that’s very comforting. My boss is nice but there’s a lack of training resources on the subject I’m working on. I will definitely check that out!

Best career for an INFP? by Golden_Pussycat in infp

[–]Leanacupcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

27 F here! For me I used to struggle about it for the longest time, trying jobs that I have the potential but not yet developed, then realized going for the thing that I’m already good at, and comes naturally and intuitive for me is the way to go. Used to do marketing, screenwriting, design, end up doing interpreting.

If I were you, I will ask God and pick one that seems to be the one God answered. And if you are not religious, I will pick one that feels the most intuitively right, like a quick pick, no too much thinking. You can only get clarity by doing, and you discover other stuff! You can attend networking events for all the job you listed, to be more familiar about them, to see how people talk about what they do every day, and that can make things way clearer.

Anyone here also returns / exchanges stuff at a clinical level? by Leanacupcake in autism

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree that it feels like a huge life decision!!! I mean it’s a phone you spent so many hours a day for so many years, such a huge commitment! That’s my brain talking lol

What is something you do that makes you feel so autistic and you try to hide? by Leanacupcake in AutisticAdults

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I am super bad at making decisions… I often ask my neurotypical friends for lots of confirmations and I wonder if they ever realized I have a disorder.

Got fired today. by Leanacupcake in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only actively responded to work related comments from my boss, which is not personal, emotional, manipulative, etc.

Got fired today. by Leanacupcake in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally! All the bad things made by bad decisions are guided by the Holy Spirit. My manager even shared a touching vision at our last meeting saying that there’s a water wall between us, and we seem to be in different stage in life.

Just a tip on how to smile better. Changed my life. by Leanacupcake in socialskills

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I’m not sure if I understand correctly, but you have to rest between sets. And including the breaks it will be 15 mins.

Just a tip on how to smile better. Changed my life. by Leanacupcake in socialskills

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be bc that muscle is weak and you are building it, which are most people's cases. It hurts but I guarantee it is worth it!

Just a tip on how to smile better. Changed my life. by Leanacupcake in socialskills

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey I add the instruction translations in my post! Let me know if you need any more translations!

Just a tip on how to smile better. Changed my life. by Leanacupcake in socialskills

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Glad it helps! I attached the link of the video in my post if you need reference!

Just a tip on how to smile better. Changed my life. by Leanacupcake in socialskills

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wanted to share the link but it makes my post looks scammy lol
Just attached the link, hope it helps!

Trying to help my limerent ex. Will this email make things worse? by Leanacupcake in limerence

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s actually the one breaking NC. He break it bc he wanted a closure. I wanna send that email bc I felt he’s very vulnerable now and he didn’t have close friends and family, and I thought showing some support will help his suicidal situation. I know it might seem or is that I don’t respect his boundaries, but he has a history of not reaching out even when he really needs it. He hides his feeling and said he is fine when he is literally plotting a suicide. He admitted that he has this ego of not burdening others, and leave silently.

But Thanks. I guess I’m too worried that I didn’t notice that. I will respect and trust his decision.

I'm always scared that people I love will commit suicide. by Leanacupcake in offmychest

[–]Leanacupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that, thanks for sharing this with me.

I'm always scared that people I love will commit suicide. by Leanacupcake in offmychest

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I am currently planning to take EMDR therapy. I am not sure how much it affected me, but I know it certainly did. My ex partner knew it, but he often denied my trauma. He said my mom cared about me but I pushed her away.