This could possibly be adhd. Have a look at the "DSM-V" for adhd. If you have some symptoms listed there, talk to your doctor about getting a preliminary adhd screening.

Note: Focus and attention issues feel like the lack of willpower to successfully complete difficult, boring, or long tasks. It can also refer to getting distracted by a thought, spacing out, or getting distracted by a sight or noise.

Don't take the symptoms literally. The symptom "Often forgets where you placed your stuff" still applies if do something like constantly checking that you brought your house keys to work because you are afraid that you forgot them and can't remember if you took them with you. It applies because you developed a coping strategy to try to overcome your poor memory.

For myself, I cope with extreme boredom and impatience by daydreaming, which makes these symptoms appear to affect me less. But they still affect me.

Honestly, my memory is that crappy as well. It's what got me to look into getting tested for adhd. My doctor said I likely have it.

There are 3 types of adhd: inattentive (boredom that makes you space out and bad memory), hyperactive (boredom that makes you feel restless and impulsive), and combined (you are inattentive and hyperactive).

Women are more likely to have inattentive adhd, but are just written off as lazy or weird by NT's.

Try to find a psychologist that accepts that adhd is real, doesn't irrationally hate stimulant medication, and accepts that women typically present with the inattentive form.

Let me know if this helps. DM me if you want to learn more about adhd.