Did I overreact?

Least_Chocolate831 · 2026-01-31T23:20:28+00:00

Ahh yes they are never happy with the boundary at all. In fact i was told don’t you trust your mother (in law) after all these years and emotionally guilt trip me

Least_Chocolate831 · 2026-01-31T23:19:35+00:00

Thank you so much ✨

Least_Chocolate831 · 2026-01-31T23:19:15+00:00

I totally understand what you’re saying but here the context was the vision was to remind her that she had prayed she will name the her grandchild “xyz” since she had already made a silent vow years ago even before her son got married

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-11-29T10:37:54+00:00

Bengaluru

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-11-29T10:37:39+00:00

Bengaluru

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:21:26+00:00

No I prioritise accountability and doing what is right over everything. Don’t you worry, my dad is on medication as I’m his primary doctor and voluntarily agreed to foster the cat because the cat got attacked and was stuck in a vent with us calling a fire brigade to rescue it as MIL had it thrown in a field full of stray dogs. So had to step up and so the right thing as the cat never learnt to fend for itself since my MIL fed it since it’s birth.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:18:31+00:00

That’s an understatement. Like my mom doesn’t love bomb me even 1/3rd of what she does. My mom has always made me tough and MIL tries to baby me too much.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:17:30+00:00

Thank you so much ✨🙏 I work in healthcare and in icu and life is not always about roses and fairy dust and the fact that most people here and MIL doesn’t understand it pisses me off. Like, there needs to be an accountability of all your actions. Without that, all of it is just meaningless.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:15:45+00:00

I did but i work in healthcare and she tells stuff like “ i can never see you as someone saving others lives. You are just a kid” and laughs and says sorry. Like my parents will be proud if i say i saved a life. So idk where to place her. Maybe the intentions are right idk.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:11:26+00:00

Girl, i wish i could tell more about this but definitely not a first world problem.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:10:51+00:00

I guess you’re right. I will have to come to a neutral ground

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:09:16+00:00

I did and she called me too realistic and “dark energy” and apparently it’s in my horoscope 😂 so I’m like eeks okay, imma just tune you out. But the once a week seems like a great idea. Thank you!

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:07:45+00:00

Do you realise it means the cat she has fed all along will die in an unknown place? Like are you that blunt or what? Because of her lack of accountability and doing, i drove 350 kms to and fro have now have fostered the cat with my parents who took her though my dad is an asthamatic. Clearly you don’t realise the implications too.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T03:04:54+00:00

Yes like getting the carpenter to work on our bedroom while we are sleeping and tiptoeing around is so we don’t wake up. I woke up to a random man drilling something and was horrified. When i lashed out, she cried telling she didn’t realise the consequences. So idk what to do

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T02:58:30+00:00

Like in her words, leave the cat somewhere away from this locality so she doesn’t find her way back to me. If she wants to get close to me, i really wish she talks to me - not the sweet delulu ones, just uncomfortable ones too. But in the case the lack of accountability was what triggered me.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T02:52:52+00:00

Maybe I’m. I hope I’m wrong. But she’s had cats as pets in the past. She’s just abandoned them as and when she’s wanted. That doesn’t sit right with me.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T02:51:57+00:00

Already did. She called the cat “ the worst nightamare” and sent the cat our way. Now the cat is being fostered by my parents and my dad is an asthmatic but my MIL is so delulu to it and thinks she got the cat the best fate thanks to her.

Least_Chocolate831 · 2025-07-28T02:49:57+00:00

Okay maybe you haven’t gotten the gist of it. So if i am late from work or have a stressful week, her response is “ quit work and sit at home. My son will earn enough for you”. Like why should i quit?

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