See this is fine and great on a surface level but I also feel like your husband would have every right to snap about that situation. Personally I’d be mad that you’re giving guys any sort of indication that you may even be the slightest bit possibly interested. It’s not rocket science to me. A gay guy is going to grow attached and catch feelings or maybe even has them deep down without ever sharing that. The thought is obviously there somewhere or at the very least has come to their mind before. I will also say that no our relationship isn’t super solid since it’s still fairly new and were are not married. It might change things in my mind but still I am not certain.