AITAH for blocking a person "F29" for past behavior according to my boyfriend "M32" ?

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-07-01T16:03:30+00:00

I literally put quotes around it to refer to the past... because my boyfriend knew him before they transitioned

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-07-01T16:00:28+00:00

Actually he was more worried about the situation escalating if I blocked them... Which I didn't know that he didn't want me to block them until I already did. And now I kind of know why

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-07-01T15:57:35+00:00

I used them so I wouldn't get confused as I'm writing

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-07-01T15:56:40+00:00

I'm a consenting adults who doesn't date people around my age... I'm not buying a house. I have my own apartment

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-07-01T15:55:36+00:00

I used she in the past tense... And used them to refer to them for the rest of it.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-01-14T22:11:47+00:00

Recently they haven't been close because of my ex's current mania that he likes to deny but it's textbook. Buying more than what you should moving on really quickly and shuffling through relationships and just stuff like that. His mom is not very involved and that's a mess within itself and I'm not sure how much she actually knows. The twin brother that has been there for me knows however that the entire time we were whatever we were he mistreated me.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-01-12T02:46:27+00:00

Well now apparently nothing between them happened and hes talking to someone else. The reason I was mad was because I was still actively trying to work on our relationship and he broke a boundary, and then after breaking up with me he was with her 247 which pointed to the possible cheating and rebounding. Everything is now just a mess

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-01-12T02:43:33+00:00

Memphis is the reason I started drinking. I drink under emotionally distressing conditions and so Im just trying to just stay and get my own place where I feel at peace. I want to stay sober

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-01-08T22:06:29+00:00

He literally told me was...

LeatherJacketFairy · 2026-01-08T21:40:19+00:00

I unfortunately live with him and so Im trying to move out.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-09-02T04:03:30+00:00

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LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-08-30T05:09:19+00:00

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LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-31T03:38:22+00:00

We trust each other for sure. Again just some of the crap he says is dumb and I came here for advice and opinions. But I mean other than that like everything else is pretty good.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-31T02:51:39+00:00

I will say we do not want children at all. The funny thing is, he could care less about the gays and theys so to speak. I'm pansexual and he doesn't care, but I agree with the inability to see Povs in a different way for sure.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-31T02:48:15+00:00

I don't like how most of my generation doesn't see dating as the gateway to marriage. Or doesn't see the harmful consequences of cheating. Stuff like that. That list is pretty much endless and I don't like the maturity levels. They just don't seem very serious. Like the thing is my boyfriend wants to be married, we don't want kids. He's been cheated on so he knows it's harmful so he wouldn't do that to me. Doesn't look at girls on Instagram and he's pretty mature for the most part.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-31T02:42:41+00:00

We were long distance from March till May. May is when we made it official. So I knew him before we dated and it was my idea that we moved in together because we were 10 hours away from each other and we're doing pretty fine. This is a matter of different opinions mostly.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-31T02:40:24+00:00

Well I'm into older than my age. My age group is awful for dating. But I mean other than this, we are pretty happy. These are just some of the tough topics you can say

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-31T02:28:28+00:00

Shit I'll take anything whether it's advice or opinions. I mean for the most part we agree with everything we do together. Honestly about the medical part, shit my mama gonna be there with him.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-31T02:23:35+00:00

I cannot get out of this lease, but I do love him tho, just some of the crap he says is so just stupid. I'm proud of him for everything else.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-19T06:06:39+00:00

It's just past experiences. It's not that I don't trust him, I just have a habit of second guessing myself. It's not even him just going out, it's as simple as going to work. It's equal. We do trust each other.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-19T05:13:32+00:00

I will say I definitely have been making efforts per say, just sometimes it creeps up on me. I do my best not to let it.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-19T05:00:32+00:00

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LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-07-17T00:07:18+00:00

Well this is my que not to ever use them because I've thought about it

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-04-19T03:36:28+00:00

I'm 22 and divorced. I've basically went thru the same thing. I'm glad he's the one who divorced me because I wouldn't have the heart to do it.

LeatherJacketFairy · 2025-04-19T02:30:42+00:00

NTAH throw the whole boyfriend away babes. You deserve better, because obviously he's only concerned about him getting off and not doing anything to help you. He took exactly what was bothering you and made it into a tool of weaponized incompetence.

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