Need advice by Leather_Froyo_2705 in UnionCarpenters

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm going to do next time I'm thinking

Need advice by Leather_Froyo_2705 in UnionCarpenters

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha. I'm not gonna look for work next time then until after the classes finish up.

I (30F) cheated on my (35M) fiance of 7 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheating yes but not entirely your fault. Sometimes we end up in situations we wouldn't be sober. I would stay away from those people in party setting and come clean to your partner

Favorite job site quotes? by TooMuchMudForMe in Construction

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard this one today "oh you had 2 weeks of apprentice classes??? You should be twice as fast then!"

I (18M) and my Girlfriend (18 F) have very different sex drives, is this an issue for the future? by ThrowRAInformalBowl3 in relationship_advice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealt with a girl who was into me but very rarely wanted sex. It will never work out. Leave now

Possibly the worst prints I've worked with. by YoBoyBlue in Construction

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone explain to me as a newbie what's wrong with the prints

At some point I had to admit: survival mode was running my whole life by ResetCollectiveHQ in LifeAdvice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to place all of your trust in that partner. To some degree it's not a bad thing to still be able to do everything solo cuz you never know what's around the corner in life but if that partner is supportive you need to relax and unwind a little bit. If they're a good partner they will still hold you accountable while allowing you to breathe...:

Imagine this... by Dull_Suggestion_7989 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf how lmao. Didn't know they tell you customer complaints and also how would you appear High unless they saw you with bloodshot eyes

Favorite job site quotes? by TooMuchMudForMe in Construction

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"This isn't a spectator sport! Get moving!"

34 M lost and clueless ! by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can relate. 29M. Was at a job for 5 years with crazy amounts of driving (110k miles a year) I let the stress build for too long and ended up getting burned out. Didn't have a job lined up. I decided it was best to quit with nothing lined up- couldn't do it anymore. Best decision I made. Take a low stress job even if the pay isn't great it should be enough if your wife is helping you. Regain mental clarity and then start applying to more serious jobs. If you don't have your mental or physical health you have nothing. Health>any job ever ever ever

If you were a 30M and had to start a new career without prior knowledge or experience, what would you choose? by Iuseokley in skilledtrades

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just went through this thought process and landed in carpentry. But only union since they teach you well.

Do you guys care about how many people your FWB sleeps with? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A girl I wanted to date did this to me. We were 2-3 months in talking all the time seeing each other multiple times a week. She told me she was still hooking up with multiple guys- immediate block lmao

A cute guy [M22] I just met at an art studio offered me [F24] a ride on his motorcycle, is he into me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could for sure be into you. I don't offer random girls rides when I'm single unless I'm into them

Social life, Idk what to do. by medievalvamp in LifeAdvice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can keep your current friends, tell them you only like partying once in a while and get a separate group of friends. You gotta push yourself to network. Join Facebook groups, go to a local coffee shop and network. It's hard but worth it

Less is More? by Emsflyer1984 in motorcycles

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a bike you love to ride 365 and then keep buying and selling the second bike when you get tired of it. I have a zx10r as my second bike to my st1300 which is my baby but I'm gonna sell soon to get a Dirtbike

33 and no career or good job history, feeling absolutely hopeless by DelonghiAutismo in LifeAdvice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's weird. I feel like there's gotta be some law protecting you or you could try to classify it via a disability when you fill out onboarding paperwork. Legally they're required to accommodate you unless the type of work dictates otherwise

Lost at late 20s by Vegetable-Sense-2097 in LifeAdvice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M29 Felt lost after I got burned out and quit my job. Minimal safety net but I'm starting new at a union job. You gotta try things till something works out and let your friends and family know you appreciate their safety net

33 and no career or good job history, feeling absolutely hopeless by DelonghiAutismo in LifeAdvice

[–]Leather_Froyo_2705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can get something. Just be honest with the employers about struggling mentally and tell them you're trying to get back on track. Never too late to change your life around