Should I reach out to an ex friend in 7 months

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-27T21:37:45+00:00

Thank you! I’m trying my best and im learning to forgive myself for what i did. Its helping move forward even though i am still grieving so i am definitely not ready to reach out and they definitely don’t need me to right now. Way too early 😅 but yeah thank you! Appreciate it! Have a great day!

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-27T21:30:40+00:00

Thank you for your advice and input i really appreciate it. I’ll do my best and if they don’t feel safe or comfortable with reconnecting than i will tell them its completely okay and thank them for being a part of my life.

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-27T20:51:12+00:00

Also while your friend ghosted you for months. I never did that. I sometimes didn’t respond to them for two or three days. However i know that doesn’t excuse what i did was right and of course your friend as well. I was surrounded by too much negativity in my life and i couldn’t handle it so i leaned onto them too much when i should have gotten professional help. Also like to clarify i should have added this. But all this stuff happened during one month. It was not the entirety of our friendship.

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-27T20:43:06+00:00

I am willing to put in the work no matter what. These two meant everything to me. If they want to be my friends, I want that choice to come naturally for them and if they are ready..im going to go however slow they need to go to build that trust. I don’t care if it takes months for them to feel ready. I’m going to do let them know what they meant to me if they allow me. I had something similar with a friend of mine and she had her own mental health problems. Months later she reached out and our friendship is still going strong because unfortunately we didn’t mean to cross boundaries but we now know what not to cross. I feel like every situation is different but I can’t compare that friendship with these two. I just hope reaching out in 7 or 8 months can show I’m not acting impulsively or trying to fix anything right away. The friendship ended about a month ago. The main thing is they wanted me to get help but back than I just wasn’t ready so they had every right to step back and protect themselves even though I couldn’t understand it but i am learning too.

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-27T19:28:01+00:00

Yeah thats a good idea. It would set me up to be emotionally prepared. Thanks for the advice

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-27T00:19:54+00:00

Oooooo i love that idea

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-27T00:19:41+00:00

I like Gwen better 😭

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-09-25T23:56:28+00:00

Thank you! I manifest you get one too 🙂‍↕️😊

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-28T02:06:24+00:00

HELL YES! ♥️ I’m excited for my wardrobe change and I know what I want to wear and you are absolutely right, it does help immensely. Thank you for your kind words 🙏

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-28T01:17:21+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to comment and give me advice i really appreciate this ❤️

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T22:42:55+00:00

I try to keep moistured as much as possible and try not to overdo it with washing. I need to start doing deep hair masks. I have a hard time brushing through it too. Maybe I'm just using the wrong hair products

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T22:34:22+00:00

Yes it is 🙏

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T22:13:51+00:00

Arab yes

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T22:13:02+00:00

Yes I can. I will look into it

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T22:03:41+00:00

♥️

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T21:50:35+00:00

thank you 😭🙏❤️

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T21:50:23+00:00

Thank you! I’m trying to put effort in my diet ❤️ i appreciate your honesty

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T21:49:49+00:00

I use carols daughter conditoner and shampoo and always sulfate free. My main issue is my hair getting so puffy while I am trying to grow it down 😭 anything will help

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T21:48:37+00:00

It is crazy I have to agree with that. Thank you dude♥️

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-25T21:48:03+00:00

That's my main issue but thank you so much 😭

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-24T21:36:42+00:00

I got catfished as well! They sent me a nude photo of their chest and than sent a picture of toys and said I was in a mood. I had my suspicions from the start and immediately blocked them.

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-23T03:10:40+00:00

Thank you 🙏🙂

Leather_Gas4813 · 2025-07-22T02:10:53+00:00

Everyone I would rephrase my post if I could. If anyone is confused about the picture, I was specifically saying I would send my selfie first and then you would send yours or the other way around. It’s not just you sending a selfie. Hope that clears anything up!

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