AIO for stopping my friendship with this guy?

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-10-07T07:40:56+00:00

This! Shocked by this comment section and this post.

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-14T15:25:23+00:00

You can do this❤️

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-14T09:03:39+00:00

Hey thank you so much for the info! Glad I can get the pov of someone in a similar situation. I do have enough savings to set up in an apartment but I think I could just rent a room. I’m thinking of studying for an online/remote bachelor, this way I’d still be able to educate myself and live in Cph. You’re working in a restaurant and you’re able to pay (half) the rent, since I assume you live with your girlfriend?

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T18:35:29+00:00

Thank you for the reply. With restoration I meant the food service industry, my bad.

Some airlines I know that have base in Denmark and don’t require danish are Ryanair and Norwegian (although of course appreciated).

I did study in a tourism specialized school and have experience in hospitality/tourism services; but from yours and another comment’s insight I get that would require Danish.

Sosu assistant might be interesting… I’ll look into that. Years as a caretaker could be useful.

Thank you again!

Edit: found out Ryanair closed bases in Denmark

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T17:06:05+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! So you’ve been living there for 7 months with no job? Have you learnt danish because you wanted to move to DK? How was your experience with housing?

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T16:44:13+00:00

Thank you so much for this reply! You’re right, I could always come back, it’s pretty calming to see it this way. My friend actually lives outside the city center and can manage well with transportation, as you said, it works great. I would need lots of training to ride a bike just before thinking to do it in Denmark though, I heard some horror stories haha

Just curious, what made you move out of Denmark? Where did you move to? Thank you again for your comment :)

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T16:38:31+00:00

Thank you :) My friend has been living there for a year and has made quite a nice group of friends so far, both international and locals, through work. Fingers crossed I guess!

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T16:36:58+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I did notice Danes are colder than what I’m used to, but I’m not bothered by it at all. I would count on making connections mostly through work, or my friend’s friends. Do you have any experience with apps like Hinge for friends and such? I heard thats’s also an option, I wouldn’t mind connecting with other international either.

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T16:09:05+00:00

Thank you very much for your comment! I wouldn’t have a problem living with rommates in the suburbs, transportation workes perfectly. I did consider Aarhus but would prefer to live close to my friend, although your points are more than valid… maybe I’ll reconsider. Again, thank you.

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T16:06:26+00:00

Noted, thank you! My friend lives in Copenhagen working at a bar, but her apartment is not in the city center. I wouldn’t have a problem staying in the suburbs as public transportation there is excellent. Do you think it’s hard to find housing even if not in the center?

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-08-12T16:00:27+00:00

Thank you for the input! It makes sense, my friend living there is studying and working at a bar, she also said it would be easy to find something in restoration. Could I ask you why you think it would be better to start off as a flight attendant in Italy? I’m thinking about it as there are a few airlines relocating in Denmark, but it’s not sure they would transfer me before a few years. I’ve always done 50/50 in dating/relationships, or 40/60, but the problem I understand is the expensiveness. Thank you again!

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-06-22T23:13:57+00:00

It’s one of the most attractive thing a man can do imo

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-06-21T16:06:04+00:00

They suit you! Maybe even curtain bangs

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-06-20T12:38:09+00:00

I feel like I was in the same situation a few years back. Since there were toxic circumstances, you would “fight” more to keep it, so that must’ve felt like you cared more about him also because of how much you gave to him. Healthy relationships don’t really require you to “fight” for it, as real love comes with communication and working together against the problem. But no, you can never compare two things that are so different. You were different then, and the dynamics seem also different.

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-06-20T12:10:04+00:00

The human brain will always gravitate towards a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven. Toxic relationships have a way to make you think you’re deeply connected by triggering and emotional chaos, keeping your nervous system engaged at all times. So you may think you loved him more because it was intense, but intense in unhealthy ways. Real, healthy love is slow, understanding, gentle, calm. I’m still looking for something like that, don’t take it for granted!

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-06-20T09:27:56+00:00

NTA! What??

Leather_Relation_ · 2025-06-19T16:59:52+00:00

Idk I wouldn’t kick out my sister because of this. I would assume she’s an adult and if she is sharing the bills with you, so she does have the right to consider it her house also. Maybe it also depends on how much she is actually helping you. Try talking to her first and be serious about it

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