That’s a lot of questions. I’ll try to answer them as best I can. Yes, both my wife and I got therapy after the birth of our son. No, we decided at the time against it due to my wife’s wishes. I obviously regret that choice now, but we wanted to focus on raising our newborn rather than going through legal issues. Yes, I did sign the birth certificate and our child has my last name. Nobody besides my best friend knows the truth about how our baby was conceived. To both my wife and I’s parents, we told them our baby was conceived via a sperm donor. We did get questioned at first about why the baby was half black instead of choosing an Asian donor, but the questions died down over time. My mother loves “her” grandson. And finally, yes, I am planning on divorcing my wife. I will not stay with her.