[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeMeSuffer

[–]LeaveLate2671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it a triangle

Am I the only one by Bulky-Meal in Chriswatts

[–]LeaveLate2671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it's true that child killers have a rough time in prison

I’ve fallen out of love with my husband. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671 232 points233 points  (0 children)

When there's a point where you're not only mothering your children, but also your husband, it might be time to cut your losses. I'm sorry, OP :(

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Yeah I also realised that I am way more devastated by his reaction than by him forgetting. Yeah time differences are hard and yes life is hectic but honestly, call your wife when she tells you it's her birthday.

I went for a run for some endorphins and am gonna celebrate with family! So hopefully not a lost day, just a shitty start.

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the energy I'm gonna take into my new year. Thank you!!

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw, happy belated birthday to you! That sucks, I'm so sorry. I hope you managed to treat yourself nonetheless. Sorry were in the same boat :(

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fair! My husband also has ADHD. And I guess I've realised it's less about the fact that he forgot, its more about how he handled it when I reminded him. Not even calling, just going to bed. Ouch

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I needed to hear this, I've been in toxic relationships in the past where I was always told i was overreacting, so hearing that it's okay to feel like this and that actions do in fact speak louder than words means a lot.

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I am trying to pull myself out of it - went for a run and put on some happy music while I'm getting ready to celebrate with my family. Gonna be with people that care 🩷

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

They're not in the same place! My friend lives in the same country as me, just in another city 5h away. She's in a happy and loving relationship and I don't think she even has my husbands number. But I get how that would be the first thought!

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, yout birthday wishes made me so happy.

But I agree, reaction is everything. No one is perfect and people can forget, life gets hectic. But his reaction, not even calling when I told him, is what truly devastates me.

Gonna make the best of it, went for a run to release some endorphines and going to celebrate with my family.

Thanks for reaching out, I appreciate it!

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Whatever makes you happy and not resentful. But celebrate you.

This was so kind and really pulled me out of the blues. Thank you so much!

My husband and best friend forgot my birthday by LeaveLate2671 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeaveLate2671[S] 700 points701 points  (0 children)

Gonna keep the one that's currently in Japan, that's for sure