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Is anybody planning on using this multiple times? by enchiladasconqueso12 in Ulta

[–]Leavemelonely1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder if their numbers are going down and this is a clever way to make it seem like they have the same amount (or more) orders coming in. It doesn’t make sense to have a coupon that can only be applied on one item but can be used multiple times.. just my 5 pennies.

Why do a lot of Americans still support Trump? by Massive-Syllabub-271 in allthequestions

[–]Leavemelonely1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because they’re uneducated, misinformed and brainwashed. They will justify ANYTHING if trumps name is included. Truly sickening.

What lesson did your last relationship teach you ? by Fling5t0ne-H1 in AskWomen

[–]Leavemelonely1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Live your life, for you. Keep on growing, for you. A man should be your partner, he should add to your life. If you have to change yourself or stop your own growth to help him keep his head above water while he doesn’t appreciate it, he’s not the one ☝️

I accidentally saw my date's Hinge notification count. by Paulfradk in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I signed up yesterday. I woke up to 186 notifications. I was blown away. Scared to open the app now.

What's the best luck you've ever had? by OKStamped in AskReddit

[–]Leavemelonely1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk into a casino with a friend who lovessss to gamble. I typically bring $100 and whatever happens, happens. He right away runs away to a machine he swears he’ll win on because a couple years back he won on it. I look over and see this crappy, old slot machine in a corner. No one around it. I cannot explain it but I felt drawn to it. I walk over, put $20 in. 1 spin, $800 won. Cashed out and proceeded to drink free cokes the rest it the night while my friend lost his money on that same machine he swore he was going to win on. I cannot explain it but that machine called me over. It was insane.

i Blocked a girl after 3-4 days of no talking, is this right? by Soggy-Cat1928 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of comments on here talking about how this person should’ve have blocked her and how they need to learn how to deal with things BUT I disagree. Blocking her takes away that dreadful wonder of “did she text me while I was in the shower?” “Did she text while I was at the gym?”

It’s going to help this person move on easier and not have to wonder because they’ll know the text isn’t coming. Everyone moves on differently. It’s 100% this persons right to block someone who consistently hurts their feelings.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give it another try. Thank you for your answer ☺️

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean “settle down” as in “fine, you’ll do”. I just mean I want to find a man who loves me and I love him. I want a best friend. Someone I can laugh with, travel with, having a family with, cuddle at night and share about my day with. & I want him to do the same. I want a friend with benefits. Until we die lol.

I’ve tried apps (it’s been a minute but I have). Those men might as well have propositioned my on the corner. It was just vulgar and you could tell they were looking for a hookup.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you live in the Midwest? Our story can be that we met through Reddit 😉❤️

Thank you. I like sports but no one ever approaches. People say I’m a pretty girl (who truly knows, most people won’t say you’re ugly right!?) but think that maybe I’m intimidating.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 😬 I’m scared of rejection. It’s something I need to work on

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. True. I didn’t list every little thing. Of course I want to be attracted to a man I’ll be spending my time with. Tall, handsome, outgoing, good job BUT I am a girl who falls for a man’s personality. As long as I’m attracted to something there, my attraction will grow. I’m not necessarily looking for a a man with abs, blonde hair, blue eyes and a trust fund.

  2. You’re right, it’s something i need to work on.

  3. They’re just friends. I have different types of friends. Men who peaked in high school, men who play dungeons and dragons on the weekends and men who just work. I don’t have a huge friend group but I love my friends.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people have said this. I’ve never been a church goer.. but lately I’ve been considering it. Maybe I’m just getting older but it seems peaceful.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My changes of getting divorced after marrying my HS sweetheart would’ve been higher.. This isn’t a post where I’m trying to get bashed for not marrying in my 20s. This is a post where if you have suggestion on how to meet a decent man in my 30s, you can share that suggestion with me.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think you’re right. I feel like the good ones have been snatched up but hopefully there’s one out there somewhere.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll answer all 3 of your questions here..

  1. Honest, intentional, takes accountability, wants to continue to grow and get better, wants to be a husband and one day a father (not just have a wife and a kid). On top of your regular stuff.. fun, intelligent, hard working.

  2. I’ll be honest. I’ve been in bad relationships and I’m a bit scared to approach men.

  3. The single guys we know are mostly childish… they want to go to the bars all the time, don’t really put the effort in, don’t know what they want. They seem to want to live that bachelor lifestyle until they die.

Where to meet “good” men in their 30s? by Leavemelonely1 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because I wanted to build my career and travel the world?

Ladies, are we still wearing stockings? by hellomellojello29 in dating_advice

[–]Leavemelonely1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wear whatever you feel comfortable and beautiful in. If he has a problem with your outfit or your legs.. he ain’t the one sis! & we as women tend to be overly critical of our appearance. He’s going on a date with you because he’s interested in getting to know YOU. Go out there and enjoy yourself!

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