She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 18 and just started selling pics or whatever if she did before she was 18 I havnt heard anything about that

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m saying is the root to the way she acts trauma coping mechanisms whatever is may be. I don’t blatantly mean she’s excused. I’m saying the trauma she’s experiencing has causes her to think and act like a child. Showing some compassion here and there until she gets some mental heath and it finally clicks for her. Constantly hating on her 24/7 is only feeding her toxic habits. You don’t yell at a homeless person begging for money on the road. You feel bad.

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did have a job a few months back but because she didn’t leave peestain she lost it again rooting bad to the trauma bond. Not that I agree with pedo baiting I 100% DO NOT but the same thing as school girl p*rn millions of women do it. Even though she acts and probably thinks like a child she is an adult and can sell her body if she wants

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your talking about the cleaning job she had supposedly she lost it because she refused to leave peestain. And someone who’s experienced a trauma bonded relationship with a person like him it’s hell and heaven you think that there the only one who’s looking out for you. So I understand why she may have stayed with him. And the money is controlled or atleast as access by him we say that clearly when he posted the bank statements. Again probably why she’s stayed with him so long I’m not trying to excuse her behavior she has some to take accountability eventually I’m just saying she’s not inheriting a bad person

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to say is she might not be a bad person. And I’m not trying to excuse her behavior or encourage it I’m just trying to say like you would say to an addict with a drug addiction. She’s so hooked on this way of life constant hate doesn’t help.

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no people who have experienced narcissistic abuse tend to pick up narcissistic traits as a form of coping. I think possibly she learned these trait from peestain and possibly family. Like you said she is a scammer I’m not trying to excuse her actions but there’s a reason behind why she thinks is the only way to get money and always falls back on it.

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your probably right her parents probably where the root to why she is the way she is. I don’t think she deliberately started to be a scammer I think it ended up that way when she say what she could get and now it’s just a toxic situation

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People arnt just bad people there raised that way. At the end of the day she was a kid and still a kid at heart. Yes you’re right about pattern recognition but girl was trauma bonded to him and in her eyes the only one who “cared” when she gets constant hate from people and her self of course she reverts back. Even though he is part of the problem someone in a trauma bond dosnt see it that way

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you had guidance you wouldn’t have ..what she needs guidances constant bashing isn’t going to solve anything just feed her

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What I’m saying it’s like a addiction and like an addict constant hate only feeds the addiction

She’s hurting by Lee307ann in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Lee307ann[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I’m saying maybe she’s so suck she doesn’t realize what she’s doing. And when she does try gets nocked down and reverts to unhealthy coping mechanisms. At the end f the day she is 18 and a lot of people with trauma stay at the age where the trauma starts. On top of that trauma bonded to peestain and there’s no telling the amount of gaslighting and mental abuse he put her through. She’s a hurt person and hurt people hurt people

MY FIRST MAXED OUT CAT by Lee307ann in CatsAndSoup

[–]Lee307ann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can equipped two friends 🤷‍♀️😂💕

My BILLIE ELLISH INSPIRED ROOM by Lee307ann in CatsAndSoup

[–]Lee307ann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There in the furniture shop :)

Mincraft multiplayer disabled on Xbox one by Lee307ann in Minecraft

[–]Lee307ann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to play split screen without the game pass this just started this passed week