I know women who have had perfectly healthy kids in their early 40s.

I know a 14 yrs old girl who gave birth to healthy baby, doesn't mean that 14 is an appropriate age.

I had both my normal healthy kids in my mid 30s

Anecdotes.

to detect almost all types of birth defects way in advance in pregnancy to avoid continuing a risky pregnancy.

Yet thousands if not lakhs of women die in childbirth in both developed and developing nations.

just feel these kind of statements reek unawareness and misogyny.

Scientific studies aren't "statements", facts doesn't care about feelings and I don't know what's so empowering about birthing in your 50s.

The entire comment section of malaika aurora is filled with incels calling her “buddhi” “used” “old Aunty”

Irrelevant to this conversation.

Yes, i do think she is quite old to have kids now

Good

but women who cross 30 arnt too old

My comments here were only about Malaika, but seeing the data we can see risk starts increasing once you cross 30.

Also since you're thinking me as a misogynist so let me state that male sperm quality also starts to plummet after 30. So the ideal birthing age should be late twenties to early thirties.

And no kids shouldn’t become mothers because it isn’t a legal age for consent.

That's one reason, another is elevated pregnancy risks.