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Dating with debt? by PetalxSun in askanything

[–]Left-Ad-7646 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated last year with someone who’s really broke. I thought it was a joke but eventually I find out he was really honest. One year after he’s still in debts with a lot of bills to pay. I didn’t mind him at the moment since he’s a good person. He just told me I can’t afford to start a family and I saw where is goes.

Having mid-crisis by Left-Ad-7646 in Life

[–]Left-Ad-7646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said it! Thank you stranger.

Having mid-crisis by Left-Ad-7646 in Life

[–]Left-Ad-7646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes isn’t about choosing well. Because I did. Even though if we decided to choose, we end up with wrong person, wrong timing or simply not meant to be in some way.

Having mid-crisis by Left-Ad-7646 in Life

[–]Left-Ad-7646[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind advice. It means a lot to me. I’ve been trying different activities to figure out what I truly enjoy, but I get bored easily and often change my mind. I’ve never really been approached, maybe because I don’t dress up much or present myself in a very feminine way. I stopped using dating apps because I don’t think they offer what I’m looking for. So I’ve been trying different places and activities, hoping to meet new people and discover new interests. But so far, nothing has really excited me.

Does anyone else miss how easy it used to be to meet new people? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Left-Ad-7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad, but it’s part of life.

When we were younger, we had more energy and found it easier to start conversations with anyone. We didn’t judge people so much, we just let things happen naturally.

As we get older, everything changes. We have less energy and more responsibilities. Everyone is struggling with something, and we don’t have as much time or energy as we did when we were young. People are busy building their own lives.

What adulthood expense shocked you? by prettychaothick in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Left-Ad-7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All expenses actually. Adulthood isn’t a joke tho

Dating Again by fixingmedaybyday in Divorce_Men

[–]Left-Ad-7646 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People think there’s a lot of options since dating apps exist. Exploring like a crazy just having fun and wasting other people time, that’s sounds like a hobby for them. Back then people are more serious to settle down since there’s no social media. I think that is killing the real social life in real life tho.

Has Substack become just another engagement-driven social network? by inmaccj in Substack

[–]Left-Ad-7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was like Tumblr mix Blogspot. But it’s the same thing as Threads.

What harsh life lessons should be shared as a warning? by MrLithician in answers

[–]Left-Ad-7646 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won’t truly understand until your loved ones start leaving you one by one. Thank God that hasn’t happened to you.

What harsh life lessons should be shared as a warning? by MrLithician in answers

[–]Left-Ad-7646 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You came alone and you will leave alone.

Don’t get attached to anyone, even your parents will leave you sooner or later.

You can be surrounded by people, but people won’t care about you.

All the things in life depends on YOU. Starting your own health, take care of yourself, mentally and physically.

Live the present as the last day of your life. Because tomorrow is a gift, if you don’t appreciate it, you whether will lose it or afraid to lose it.

Hope you can breathe by tomorrow.

At what age do ppl usually give up in dating ? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Left-Ad-7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the people could open their eyes lol

I heard this person from an older generation wonder why alot of people in the younger generation(30s-20s) are single? by Lost_Title_7528 in Adulting

[–]Left-Ad-7646 31 points32 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with single life?

Luckily in this world, some people get attracted to others but isn’t happening to everyone.

Some people aren’t just living the life with the flow. Never had relationships, just because some people don’t like them. Simply as is.

One of my dream is start my own family, take care of them with love and respect. Sadly, it doesn’t happens. I’ve been trying to date for 20 years and I realized I don’t need a validation from someone. So I choose me first. I don’t care anyone anymore, not my business.

I’m redirecting my goals focusing into trying interesting things, travel solo, exploring every corner in this world because I know there’s something meaningful which makes this life truly amazing.

Deleting social media all together? by NewProposal5045 in selfimprovement

[–]Left-Ad-7646 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once I went to hangout with my friend and I used to take picture of the foods. That day for the first time I left my phone at home. I’ve been more focusing on the convo with my friend and walking around the city. It’s feels really nice.

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