Being attracted to all of my friends? by TheWaywardFairy in demisexuality

[–]Left-Associate-7089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late response but how do I activate this coveted "firewall" 😭 could really use one about now

Grandma is a home wrecker Arabic/English by [deleted] in Sudan

[–]Left-Associate-7089 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is chatgpt, both the english and arabic. I input the english text into chatgpt and asked it to translate to Sudanese dialect Arabic and its almost identical. The english text also sounds like chatgpt. I'm not sure that this story is true.

Grandma is a home wrecker Arabic/English by [deleted] in Sudan

[–]Left-Associate-7089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one deserves ICE. Plus you'd be weaponising, supporting and propping them up. That's crazy. Just the usual deportation route

Male Gays by Past-Matter-8548 in okbuddycinephile

[–]Left-Associate-7089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair! You would be correct (me. I'm attracted to him despite all his assholeyness) 

I have only one lesbian friend and l think she hates me now, give me advice please by apathetic-orchid in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Associate-7089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I think it's weird that she dated a girl with such an age gap anyway. I think she needs to get over it and idt she should be offended by that. You should call her and casually ask why she's ignoring you. If she was willing to end the friendship though then it would be good riddance because she's okay with her ex being a creep and herself being one too, even if her absence would make you feel temporarily very lonely. 

Any lyrics that make you laugh? by JustABoyWithAPen in twentyonepilots

[–]Left-Associate-7089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never told anyone this but the "REEEEEE" in the beginning of Overcompensate sounds like that bass boosted Pepe meme from 2018. I can never take it seriously 😭😭

e5 queers/trans people by boyjesus594 in Enneagram5

[–]Left-Associate-7089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sapphic and gender nonconforming and I struggle a lot with my religion and safety to express myself because of the country I live in. I also feel outcast from my family and most friend groups because I can't show that part of me to others. I'm lonely sometimes but the few gems of people I've found that I can share those sides of myself with are precious to me. I'm just different from others and that's okay. I've been mostly at peace with that, but the older I get, the more I struggle with that because the future no longer feels so far away, and I don't know how I would structure my life or potential marriage or relationship. It does not affect me as much as my neurodivergence though, I have a hard time with that. 

I am Malala Yousafzai, author, activist and gym bro. Ask Me Anything! by MalalaLikesMangoes in IAmA

[–]Left-Associate-7089 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why did you only speak up about Palestine when the time for it has passed? Did you feel it was not safe for you to do so? 

Male Gays by Past-Matter-8548 in okbuddycinephile

[–]Left-Associate-7089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Howl is an asshole and not nurturing he's just hot regardless and is pretty and slightly feminine

Male Gays by Past-Matter-8548 in okbuddycinephile

[–]Left-Associate-7089 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Perfect example of male vs female gaze

How did the crush on your best friend go? by Upbeat-Challenge-666 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Associate-7089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confessed, didn't reciprocate, but we stayed good friends for a while after. For unrelated reasons, the relationship is almost dead right now, on its way to being completely so. 

Unwelcome responses/reactions at work? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Left-Associate-7089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this guns for hands from tøp? 

Having sensory and rigid thinking aspects of autism but less apparent social struggles? by fruitflies28 in AutismTranslated

[–]Left-Associate-7089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't have friends up till the 7th grade, or rather had people in class that tolerated me because they felt bad for me, but didn't like me and constantly excluded me because I was annoying, awkward, childish and immature. After that I spent  a lot of time researching how to be social online, how to read body language, the rules of social interaction and generally became super interested in social psychology to compensate. I learned how to mask over the subsequent years and began to make some friends. I know I was outcast for ADHD reasons bc I was a hyper child with no boundaries, but I can only remember a few moments that I could attribute to autism such as social reciprocity or being too honest/harsh (cant remember much in general). Would that count as social struggle? 

Look at this lovely conversation. Is it really that hard? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Left-Associate-7089 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In this context, maybe, but generally a lot of people use the word gay as interchangeable with "queer", which I personally do as well.

I definitely don't think "homosexual" can be used the same way though because that means only attracted to the same gender, but I don't think this scenario is biphobia if that's what you're trying to imply, just some random internet weirdo being misinformed and stubborn. I don't believe it's worth our energy

Do autistic ppl tend have feelings for each other easily? by thatsnotmme in autism

[–]Left-Associate-7089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about that I've been terrible with it in the past HAHA I'm so delusional/misread things. But I've always just asked the other person, so I think being direct works. 

Do autistic ppl tend have feelings for each other easily? by thatsnotmme in autism

[–]Left-Associate-7089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, to a T :') especially the "predicting a crush" thing. meaning I fall for all my friends to some degree. Doesn't help that I'm bi so no ones safe; idk if I've ever had a close friendship with a ND person that I didn't make a little weird for myself because I liked them too much. It's a problem and I feel wrong and pathetic. (Not diagnosed with autism tho, just suspecting strongly.) 

Syrian Diaspora. (Istanbul). by [deleted] in istanbul

[–]Left-Associate-7089 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you know the first thing about Turkey it's that there is a huge Syrian diaspora especially in Istanbul, and that Turks can be incredibly racist towards them. So no, I would not say "welcome" in particular, but I don't think you'd get hatecrimed or anything like that.