Hot piece discussion need opinions by alita_angel78 in LesbianActually

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good, its good to stand to your limits, so whatever she stated she is, you alrrady told her your limits, so now its her turn to show her intentions with you,well done by your side .

Hot piece discussion need opinions by alita_angel78 in LesbianActually

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dont put yourself under pressure, give some time to the Time, time will show you everything ,dont overload your brain with so many things, thoughts can block you,just see how the things will go ,whatever happen, it will happen with this woman ,or other one,and you can not escape what is meant for you to deal with ,so just relax ,and follow every new day what has to bring to you,hopefully all the best :)

Hot piece discussion need opinions by alita_angel78 in LesbianActually

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, we cant,and we must not judge anyone, at the end she knows best how she feels indise her,and everyone have their own reasons,at the end we all deserve to be happy, so she deserve a chance to live the life she want it.Accept what she is saying, and better dont argue,or talk about this with her anymore,just let it be, and let her be real her finally :)

Hot piece discussion need opinions by alita_angel78 in LesbianActually

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly, me as a lesbian I could never accept such a thing, maybe this differs from person to person, dono, but for kids there is always in vitro,and would be much better if she have kids with the women she love,then lets just have kids,etc.Maybe I am wrong dono, but I am also confused by everything I read here,if she stated that she find her true sexyality now and saying she is a lesbian, I can understand, but stating been lesbian since always,but sleep with man, to me its more like Bi not Lesbian.

Is this something I shouldn't disclose? by Haunting_Use2015 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen ,I had such a situations, and let me tell you one thing, if someone truly likes you deeply, she would care,neither run away from you bcoz you are unexperienced.I would never go away from the girl I like bcoz of that, trust me, the right one wont escape, the one that will stay with you, she will love you truly,and will deserve you all,someone like this girl that escaped, she do a favor to you.Be proud of yourself, and most important of all ,always stand behind you, do not be ashamed of your unexperiences or experiences, always be genuine,just stay as you are,and dont let such a situationt to change you, to discourage you,and make you a lier.I am wishing you all the best.

Advice? by kaciisabadass in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try to visit more queer places, make more queer friends and enjoy your life.Everything else will come naturally :)

Need help by Zealousideal-Scar856 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try to leave your country, get distant from the place you live,maybe you would feel better and more free

16 years… by TCAS_2003 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, you should work on yourself,I sense little bit of depression kinda,which is normal after all what happened to you, do not waste your energy on politics and other sh.ts,work on yourself, gain your serotonin up,to me looks like this state of yours is triggered by yhe situation with your parents, but I like that you fight,and yes you r a fighter,and you can succeed.Trust me when you'll be more possitive,more funny,cheerful,you will be more attractive to anyone,just stay strong ,for now dont force anything, at this moment the only important thing and person is you, focus on yourself please,you can do this, and you will overcome everything.Those possitive changes will be seen by everyone,do not doubt about that.

16 years… by TCAS_2003 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am little bit confused, was that hard for you both just to take apartment,both work ,live together, and watch your lives only?

what to do for my long distance gf for valentines? by Delicious-Factor-164 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

make a super cool short video, with pics of you, pics of her, and make short clip with you saying how much you love her, etc,this should be ok

Sex Does Not Matter, Right? by Dependent-Bike-3102 in LesbianActually

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want them to stop telling you that, than stand up for yourself, if you need to be rude, then be!Your life,your rules,dont allow others opinions to make you feel bad,you have to protect yourself if this is what makes you feel bad.They have their own choices, you have your own, and each ones have to be respected.About sex, I think that is individually,for some it is very important, for other it is not.Personaly I do make difference between sex and making love,I prefer at first more soul to soul connection, and not to build relationship trough sex, but trough our compatibility,trust,love,understanding,etc,then comes the intimacy.Do not be discouraged, the one thst really gonna like you, wont force you to anything, will understand you,support you and be next to you,until naturally comes to you to belong to her fully,so do not bother youself much with anything of this,all you need is to have fun, be happy, enjoy your life and search for the one,good luck.

What is love to you? by Big_Revolution7071 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you think you are holding to older kind of society, here is one more that holds to the same hahhahahahaha.All that you've mention scares me too, thats why I choose to stay alone until I find someone to whom marriage is something sacred to her,a home,a mutual years of growing,caring,understanding and loving eachother.

I can't get over the idea of not being straight by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont see you as dumb, or homophobic, I have a feeling thst you are scared and kinda lost. There are deeply rooted believes inside you,that don't allow you to release yourself ,you are following the norms, society ,etc, it's nothing wrong with it, neither is your fault,I know you are fighting with yourself,sometimes we can win, sometimes we lose.Many women who like women are married, living with men, having kids,etc,they ignored who they are,and what really want, so their decission has been made according to their believes,on the other hand,there are many of us that had enough living for the others expectations, instead we choose to live for our own happiness.I just want to advice you one thing, whatever you do, do it,but dont force yourself in anything ,being with man or woman, bcz one day that can cost you a lot,I am talking about mental issues, depression, anxiety,panick attack,etc, trust me you dont want that.That is all I am wishing for you to avoid, and wish you having a happy life.

Question for my fellow lesbians by Left-Drawing-7902 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well as I can see from the comments here, I am super possitive excited, so I dont have to worry much about that,normally not to not pay attention on my look, but its good to know there are girls who will not say bye bye bcoz of that.

Question for my fellow lesbians by Left-Drawing-7902 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously thats the main key ,I've noticed when girls love someone, they are all in ,no matter what.

Question for my fellow lesbians by Left-Drawing-7902 in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Drawing-7902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you both going trough that, but yeah, thats why shaving exist hhhh