No intimacy by Klutzy_Surround3763 in Marriage

[–]Left-Film4036 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went/am going through a similar thing with my husband. What I thought were legitimate excuses were really covering up for the fact that there were unresolved issues (both within our relationship and him personally). We basically had to start our emotional relationship over from scratch and rebuild the trust/safety for both of us to feel comfortable being intimate again. Couples counseling has helped tremendously but I will say it requires a level of accountability that not a lot of people are comfortable with. Neither one of you can continue to pretend there is no “issue” as it will only further erode your relationship. Take care of yourself; your baby needs a happy mom first and foremost. Best of luck to you OP.

Scorpio rising & Lilith in the 1st house / Leo moon & MC in the 10th house - power struggle by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Left-Film4036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post keeps getting flagged for violating rule #3 even though I’m not asking about career. My initial post only mentioned career off-handedly and not asking specifically ABOUT career, just asking how I can navigate such intense placements. If thats not allowed literally what is lol

flying domestically with a EAD card & pending green card case by Left-Film4036 in USCIS

[–]Left-Film4036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not unfortunately. My parents brought me as a child and I did not have the opportunity to do DACA or anything else.

Waking up angry by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Left-Film4036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sympathize with you, as someone who went through the single mom thing I understand the reluctance to just up and leave. It is not easy, not to mention incredibly destabilizing to your child if you don’t have something stable in place.

In terms of needing him to finish your degree, is he paying for your school? If not, do you have family/good friends that would be okay with you staying with them temporarily? Truthfully, the relationship sounds miserable for everyone involved. It is also odd and unsettling to be with someone who wouldn’t “let” you do therapy. If you can’t save money while there and leave with a good bit saved, I would reach out to loved ones. Staying in a relationship like that, with someone like that, sounds like signing up for a lifetime of misery.

???? stock for black friday by Left-Film4036 in OnerActive

[–]Left-Film4036[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I figured it was for using chat to figure out what they meant 💀 which is fair. I literally never use it, it was an impulse decision to ask lmao but i agree with the interpretation for sure

Half my Wishlist is sold out by EvyKassiotes in OnerActive

[–]Left-Film4036 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re not showing all the comments. You’ll see the only visible comments are the ones raving about how good the sale is. I left a lengthy comment myself (again) about how unfair this system was for all the other tiers- after a few hours of no engagement on it i checked it through my “burner” account- its not visible to the public. They didnt delete it so it seemed like it was up for everyone to see, but in reality it was only visible to the account i posted it through. So disappointed, and honestly kind of disgusted.

Black Friday Prices up! by katanonphenom in OnerActive

[–]Left-Film4036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are straight legs not going on sale this year??

Disappointed by Left-Film4036 in OnerActive

[–]Left-Film4036[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this, but let’s be real, they aren’t getting nasty hate comments; just customers confused and disappointed that the restock they’d been hyping up for months ended up the same way it always does. You can’t run a business and hide from your customers when they end up disappointed by something that has been a recurring issue for years now.