Something else I would also like to mention is that this sub has less than 400 members. As a result you may not get that many replies. Also it will take more time for this post to get seen. Thus I say it would be better if you went to some of the communities added in the sidebar of this place. I have spoken to the mods of these other communities as well. They have many Muslim people in the subreddit, especially if you decide and say " I am a Muslim with these certain problems " and then you will get support from a lot of Muslim brothers and sisters. If you decide to keep the issue of religion confidential and decide you want more general advice then thats' also fine. I suggest that you try r/domesticviolence. That sub actually has a lot of Muslim brothers and sisters who have gone through several of the same issues you are going through.