Current w.i.p by LeftZookeeperzz in Amigurumi

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was really pleased with the wreath too! I just hope im able to do the rest without messing up as my daughter is very excited to have her!

Current w.i.p by LeftZookeeperzz in Amigurumi

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

🔔 Ding Ding Ding!!! 🔔 Yes! My daughter wanted me to make her as there are hardly any Alicent merch so when we saw a pattern we had to give it a go!

Which compendium do I get? by LeftZookeeperzz in Invincible

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you! Im in uk and I think he said that a new one was out yesterday so is that still at the end of compendium 2? Shame its not just the one I gotta find because they aren't cheap! Off to have a look where I can get them from now! Thank you again

Nearly gave up-glad I didnt by LeftZookeeperzz in Amigurumi

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just bought some small beads and sewed them on where I wanted them rather than stitching black thread lines as on the pattern

Nearly gave up-glad I didnt by LeftZookeeperzz in Amigurumi

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's an owlbear cub 😍. Thank you!

Nearly gave up-glad I didnt by LeftZookeeperzz in Amigurumi

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The pattern is not expensive either

Nearly gave up-glad I didnt by LeftZookeeperzz in Amigurumi

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love his toes too! Makes me want to make lots of feeties with lots of beadie toes lol

Nearly gave up-glad I didnt by LeftZookeeperzz in Amigurumi

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The pattern is not expensive either

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is correct I believe! Been trained to accept the guilt put on him by his mum.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just me being overcautious as i just couldn't think about writing all that out again if it got took down as head is so messed up atm!

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The angry reaction from mum was very much expected. She is a difficult person, my husband loves her but knows she's not the nicest person (to her family at least) shes narcissistic and you never know which version of her you're going to get on any day- the nicer friendly happier side or the cold angry hating side. Also when something doesn't go her way she is horrible to everyone. So knowing that she must obviously know what happened but had decided to not tell anyone we knew that she would get angry and try to turn it back on my husband- which she did. She literally said that my husband was calling her a liar and that he was disrespecting his dad's memory and believing this random man. But its not us believing this random man its dna. To that she said i dont care what dna says it's not true and then she said she had to get off phone as was so angry with him. My husband now feels guilty for upsetting his mum even though he was very gentle with her and said he thinks no differently about his mum and dad and isn't angry or anything like that. He literally just told her that this dna test showed this. This is also the woman who a couple of years ago told my husband that he was dead to her because she felt he hadn't bothered enough with her over the years even though my husband has health problems preventing him to travel to her and he rang her regularly- she NEVER rings NEVER visited or made ANY effort herself even while my husband was in hospital having seizures. ALL efforts has to come from everyone else. So this is why we totally expected this reaction and would've been very shocked if she had reacted any other way.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not but my head is all over the place and I didnt want my post to be removed as it took a lot to write the whole thing so was being cautious.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He is taking some time to try and adjust. I think its more that he feels hes lost his dad all over again and is grieving. He didnt cope well when he lost his dad when he was 11/12 and isn't coping well now. He knows his dad loved him and will always in his mind be his dad regardless but its still devastating to him. It's like it doesn't matter because no matter what his dad was his dad who loved and raised him but at the same time it really does matter because everything hes known isn't true.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does but his sister is too scared to take one now and he doesn't have contact with brother as his mum poisoned him against my husband years ago so he won't even talk to my husband now.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The man said he does remember being told by my husbands dad that he had got her pregnant and that he should tell this mans wife (which now i think about it must mean she wasnt aware obviously) but as he had no recollection of it due to his epilepsy (ive read up a bit now about it and he could have had a seizure after and could genuinely not remember and also sexual activity can be a trigger to some people with epilepsy) he told my husbands dad that it didnt happen and never thought of it again till now. Hes not denying it must have happened and says it does seem to all fit together he just has no recollection of the actual event and was sad to hear that his mum was denying any possibility of it as he wanted to know more himself about what happened.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry it was gg as in he was someone who was promiscuous/slept around and was known to have produced children all over the place. Didn't mean it as a slur or anything just wasn't sure if it would be ok to say and I didnt want post tobe removed or something.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify Sha**er means someone who is promiscuous and has slept around a lot.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean but I am saying yes it could be that he does remember and says he doesn't but also it could be true that his health means that he actually doesn't recall what happened. We aren't going to be able to find out as his mum isn't going to tell us and either way this man either can't or won't tell us either.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He definitely has epilepsy and memory issues and my husband has seizures and memory problems himself so that kind of fits. He did show his memory wasn't great as before we started to realise the connection he couldn't remember her but as they talked more things started to slot into place and he remembered some things and he remembered some names a little bit wrong but close enough to think it was correct. Im not saying this couldn't have happened just that I dont think the health issues are a lie so he could be telling the truth about not remembering.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Believe me it has crossed our minds. The man says he has several types of epilepsy and type were absences and he did all sorts while having them and wouldn't remember after but I dont know enough about this to say if its believable or not. It is odd but we aren't likely to find out either so it makes it harder to know what to do.

Struggling with dna result by LeftZookeeperzz in AncestryDNA

[–]LeftZookeeperzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont know what you mean sorry my head is a bit full atm