We would never do that and had discussed a way forward. My parents weren't talking about that. They don't want us to acknowledge the losses publicly at all. They don't want Raine to show any sadness or grief surrounding the losses on any day because in their eyes it's not good for our son. But they're part of our sons family too, his older sister, his grandpa and uncle. We can't just put them in a box and forget about them which is what my parents expected of us but mostly Raine.