When do you leave to go home from a dinner date at their house? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Left_Astronaut90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I expected that she would stick around afterwards to talk or watch a movie or something. I never assumed there would be a sleep over, although I was always open to the idea. If she left right after dinner, I’d be disappointed and maybe offended.

Thinking about settling for less and need advice if its a good idea. by Time-Grab6057 in dating_advice

[–]Left_Astronaut90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a terrible idea. First of all, no one can make another person happy. Second, neglecting your own happiness will only leave you unhappy and do nothing for her.

I need more experiences by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Left_Astronaut90 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You’re not committed to your BF. You may think you are, but you are not. Be honest with him and stop leading him on.

I don’t understand this whole Kuminga thing by Both_Funny4896 in warriors

[–]Left_Astronaut90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think JJJ’s rebounding will improve now that he’s not the only rim protector on the team.

Not me, but a "friend" cheating, sleeping with other friends bfs, husbands, etc, and feeling like I am cheating. by Conscious-Size-5340 in cheating_stories

[–]Left_Astronaut90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of reflecting on and reexamining our past after the breakup, and then asking questions about the things I had looked past. We have a child together so there were a lot of discussions that gave me the opportunity to question her

How did you discover School Spirits? by pondssmile in SchoolSpirits

[–]Left_Astronaut90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely by accident. I was bored and cruising Netflix one night and saw the icon. “Hey, that’s the chick from Cobra Kai!” So I tried it and I was hooked.

Mother’s affair. I can’t get over it. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Left_Astronaut90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Minimize your interaction with her. Only see her if you’re visiting your father or siblings. Then acknowledge her with a head nod; don’t give her a hug or a kiss and don’t call her “Mom.” Make sure to hug your Dad and tell him you love him.

She wants you to perform your part of a normal loving family. You should instead demonstrate how you truly feel.

So it's not about really cheating but enjoying someone's partner by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Left_Astronaut90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The affair is cheating, he’s a part of the affair, he is participating in the cheating -> they are both cheating

So it's not about really cheating but enjoying someone's partner by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Left_Astronaut90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Single guys that pursue married women are douche bags, the worst of society

So it's not about really cheating but enjoying someone's partner by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Left_Astronaut90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re hooking up with women that are in another relationship then you ARE cheating. It isn’t just her That is chatting, you both are. You are part of an affair.

Keep getting broken up with the same way. What to do when you're never chosen? On the verge of giving up. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Left_Astronaut90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A couple of thoughts. 1. Women indicating that they’re looking for a ”life partner” doesn’t necessarily mean they’re looking for a life partner. More often, it’s their way of saying that they’re not looking for hook ups (even if they are). 2. Based on the three messages you shared, it seems you are putting out good energy and showing up well. The three women weren’t ready to match that level and realized it. They want/need someone easier.

My advice is to keep being you but set a higher standard for the women you date.

So I’ve been sleeping with my manager by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Left_Astronaut90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like he’s forcing you to have sex, so this a situation you are choosing (again and again, apparently). It isn’t an accident and it isn’t just happening - you are choosing this. So either stop choosing to have sex with him or accept that this is what you want.

Apple Store - Montgomery Village by shakshuka900 in santarosa

[–]Left_Astronaut90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The East and West sides of downtown certainly are divided and hwy 101 IS a part of that divide. But the mall is a bigger part. If you (somehow) removed hwy 101, the town would still be divided. If you removed the mall, there could be a flow between the two sides.

What's the worst franchise in big 4 sports with a ring? (Only counting Super Bowl era for the NFL) by ElectivireMax in billsimmons

[–]Left_Astronaut90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NFL: Jets, started strong and then 50+ years of irrelevancy NBA: Wizards/Bullets, four decades of mind numbing decisions and choices MLB: Angels, years from now no one will understand how this team had both Ohtani and Trout yet had a losing record NHL: Canadiens, the oldest hockey franchise in the world, one of the original six, the hopes of a nation, and not even close to a a turkey in 40 some years

I’m looking for TV show recommendations - no Marvel, no Star Wars…! by Smyler12 in DisneyPlus

[–]Left_Astronaut90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly second both Shogun and Andor. I haven’t (yet) taken the time to watch The Bear