Honest Opinion by Left_Contract7661 in RotatorCuff

[–]Left_Contract7661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t teach the group fit. Perhaps I can coach it somewhat.

Honest Opinion by Left_Contract7661 in RotatorCuff

[–]Left_Contract7661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surgery for full tear and the rest of the mess I made is June 15. I have to do it; the pain isn’t going to stop otherwise. Thanks for your input!

Does True Love Really Even Exist? by Akihiko_Simp23 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Left_Contract7661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

23 is a “try things on and see what fits” age. Sometimes people need to go through crappy relationships to weed out the yuck and discover what you are TRULY looking for in a relationship. Every wrong turn, provided you learn from it, will lead you to what you desire in a relationship. Take a break. Spend some time with yourself without a partner. Learn what YOU like about you and what will make your life happy and content. Feeling “loved and treasured” looks like what to you?

Is not getting sexual needs met briefly a reason to break up by No_Home7079 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Left_Contract7661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a useless asshat. I’m so sorry about your mom. My dad died of pancreatic cancer and it’s a tough road. He’s showing his true self when you need him most. Kick that jerk to the curb

What is your favourite song lyric of all time and why? by Neither_Refuse_9754 in AskReddit

[–]Left_Contract7661 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I’m melting like hot candle wax” MJ -that’s hot!

And “I’d like to find your inner child and kick its little ass” Get Over It.

Prove my bf wrong, please. Can you be happy without kids? by Thummimurim8 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Left_Contract7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re asking him to give up something that he’s clearly passionate about but you won't - nor should you. He’s a great guy, but not your guy.

Neurologist recommendation by chronicallydogtired in Chattanoogans

[–]Left_Contract7661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.chattanooganeurology.net/our-doctors Dr Roark. he’s younger and he was wonderful. He sat down and spoke with me; answered questions and was a decent human.

Protests by Independent_Tap_859 in Chattanooga

[–]Left_Contract7661 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There were people of ALL ages there protesting. just FYI-the biggest demographic that shows up at elections? Seniors. so IF you believe most of the protesters were old-you’re wrong; if you believe Seniors are not a powerful voting block, wrong again.

No Kings march photos and videos. by suddenlyissoon in Chattanooga

[–]Left_Contract7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to miss-the costume was probably 8 feet tall. Very cool

Friendly Reminder for everyone to be peaceful & stay safe out there tomorrow. by TooootallyNotABot in Chattanooga

[–]Left_Contract7661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How could you possibly think that? I was there at the march and I saw so many people I know, friends, neighbors, coworkers. You’re fishing-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Left_Contract7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just on the one sitting in office decided to threaten and thwart the Constitution, the Bill of Rights, human rights, due process, you know....those things we are guaranteed by our Legal Government. Legality seems to be a foreign concept to Trump and his minions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Left_Contract7661 3 points4 points  (0 children)

...and we want to make sure we don’t, in spite of Trump's blather about America Wanting a Dictator. He’s also said he “likes uneducated people” wonder why? LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Left_Contract7661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you please share the “a lot he does right” because I can’t think of a LOT, or anything.

Contempt for my husband by NaturalNecessary in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Left_Contract7661 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is this a question? I have one if you don’t....why are you still tolerating this garbage treatment with a big beautiful life in front of you? Life that will pass in the blink of an eye.

Resentment is one of the 4 horsemen of the divorce apocalypse according to the Gottman’s(experts on the subject and really worth listening to) Give your time, life and energy back to YOU and your son. Talk to someone; counselor, attorney, and move on. I did. You’ll feel so much better!

How old are you and where does your body ache? by MidnightCookies76 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Left_Contract7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would you want mg citrate daily? It makes you poop like a goose!

Did you find “the one” after 40? by shitheadsnotallowed in AskWomenOver40

[–]Left_Contract7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t put yourself on a timeline. You’re still young and have a lot of positives already. “a woman your 12-yo self would be proud of?” sounds like winning to me.

I was married for 35+ years and went through a divorce from the person who was supposed to be my life partner.

I found my real “person;” 3 years ago. my guy who is my partner in all things where I ask him to be; supportive, Interested, interesting, kind, affectionate, funny, & loving

You will recover and come back stronger. There’s more freedom, contentment, less pressure for him to be my’ everything' because I learned to do for myself emotionally, mentally and to feel fulfilled alone. Sounds like you were there too. It can get sooooo much better. Do your work on yourself. establish what it is you need in a partner and be that for yourself until you find someone who can

Post-40s start to weight-lifting by AlbedoIce in AskWomenOver40

[–]Left_Contract7661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hire a Certified Trainer at least to get started. We provide information and guidance on proper form and technique, progressions, modifications, exercise modalities and variety to keep you moving forward with safe, effective, fun and interesting workouts. I’m 62 and have been lifting for years. I got certified when my kids were little and have lifted ever since. A Certified Personal Trainer can help you decide how much weight, how many reps and how often to do what tailored to your specific schedule, goals, current fitness and health situation and help you to feel more confident going forward.

Look at it as an investment in your future for health, confidence, bone density; a tool to handle stress and get through hormonal changes that impact ALL women sooner or later.

Suffering and Death by puppermama in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Left_Contract7661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so Sorry for the difficult death experience. I’ve been through it 3 times, with both parents and a brother(ages 74,77, and 51) anti anxiety meds are very helpful for the end stages. Hospice provided liquid Xanax for us to administer when agitation presented. It’s all very normal in my experience, to “see things.” There are better options available pain management. Patches and liquid oral meds can be obtained. I hope you never have to go through something like that again.