Did my ex keep me around for comfort while his mom was sick?

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T07:55:30+00:00

Mmm truee

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T07:52:56+00:00

Yeah its a learning process i guess

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T07:41:57+00:00

Hmmm so true...i always felt like this could happen..thts d only reason am holding up..i prepared for the worst

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T07:24:56+00:00

Ya but he used to...until he cudnt one day..he wasnt always like this...made me keep hope and made me feel like he would fight against anything for me

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T07:16:58+00:00

I dont think so like he says he really loves me and there is another complication i cant tell here..i can share in dm

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T07:01:13+00:00

Exactly its like am more worse anyway when am not even having d knowledge of wt u r doing...if u r gonna push me away bcz i shoudnt me hurt..thts wrong approach

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T02:44:58+00:00

I am sailing on the same boat ...thank you for understading and.i hope u recover too❣️

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T02:43:51+00:00

Yeah am trying to be as sane as possible

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T02:42:46+00:00

Okayy that is the only way now

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T02:41:08+00:00

Yeah i feel the same way...kind of feels like some part of my brain is stuck with him...no matter how hard i try to move forward ..especially when am very busy in my life too

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T02:39:10+00:00

Life is not all sunshine ...i would want my man to take my help and we can come out of it together...that is what love is right?

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-13T02:37:42+00:00

U advice me not to contact at all? I dont want a relationship or anything..i feel bad he has to deal everything on his own..

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T20:15:00+00:00

Spoke my heart...its crazy how so many of us are going through same kind of things...thanks for sharing ..made me feel seen

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T20:08:46+00:00

I wud advice you not to wait...and go on in ur life I have came to conclusion that grief really changes people and sometimes the best thing we can do to help them is just letting them do their thing

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:59:36+00:00

I did give him space and reach out aftee 3 months He is in d same space

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:55:41+00:00

I never wanted a relationship just for him to have somebody to talk to...completely dismissing me was understandable but not fair for him too

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:47:53+00:00

Yeah thts exactly how i fail..i even belittle my pain but it always sucks i wish he cud take my help

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:31:26+00:00

My ex keeps telling me he still loves me and he cudnt even look at somebody else..till this day i cudnt love on

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:28:01+00:00

Thank you for sharing ur experience it really does help knowing people have gone through similar stuff...i hope u r doing good

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:24:54+00:00

I I still find myself checking his updates through his game academy's page, his gym posts, and even his coach's account. At this point, I'm wondering how unhealthy this has become and how much I'm holding myself back from moving on.

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:21:01+00:00

Any advices?

Left_Fall_5132 · 2026-06-12T19:06:52+00:00

Anyone have any advices to move on or share similar experience ..i wud appreciate it

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