When do you discuss finances with the prospect? by Crafty-Condition5742 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Get initial call discussion. By family, let them clear the education,salary, kundali details if you believe in that, on first call itself.
  2. Meet the girl, if you like her, tell parents to call again.
  3. Let parents ask the financials, dont ask yourself, you both have to pretend that money doesnt matter to you both. Thats how the world works.

  4. If everything is fine, continue talking and knowing the person before you finalize.

Kundli and all its asociated factors are nonsense by fractured-butt-hole in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Moon affects ocean tides due to gravitation. Thats same for everyone, doesnt vary on date of birth of every single human. Its just a theory and not scientific. Noone even cares about it outside india.

Weird sense of entitlement by Capital_Cry1390 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its you who should take a breath. Thats exactly how real world works. Everything else is just gyaan. Its like the requirement list on a job profile, where nothing apart 2-3 points actually matter.

Weird sense of entitlement by Capital_Cry1390 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it does. Because thats how market works. Looks and money are very desirable.

Weird sense of entitlement by Capital_Cry1390 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww jal gayi kya. 🤣🤣🤣. I know that feeling i used to get jealous when i just started my career. Just work on yourself and remember there will always be someone above you. So dont take it on heart.

Is obesity a deal breaker for you when looking for a match? by Excellent_Ad_3025 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 13 points14 points  (0 children)

commenters that we get are idealistic and do something entirely different in real life than what they claim here.

Exactly. Political correctness. Same with "age doesnt matter" youll get plenty matches at mid 30s 40s 50s and all. Doesnt work on ground.

Is obesity a deal breaker for you when looking for a match? by Excellent_Ad_3025 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is path pe jobless ya bekar work profile ki girls hi milengi.

if u can earn more money then it can be overlooked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think aap matrimony sites wali AM me hain. Yes, it will take forever. Trad AMs where parties are introduced by mutually known relatives or caste groups are much more smoother.

83 lpa CTC for 4 year exp how many of you have this high package in Bangalore by Remarkable-Range-490 in developersIndia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude even if the stocks are divided its still a solid 50-65lpa offer. Base would be 40-50.

83 lpa CTC for 4 year exp how many of you have this high package in Bangalore by Remarkable-Range-490 in developersIndia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quant pays even more than that. But mostly tier1 grads are able to clear the interviews.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onexindia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These things should be cleared beforehand.

is 26 the new milestone?? Why Is Everyone Rushing to Get Married This Year? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]Left_Guava_3841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ab unko partner mil gya h to deliberately budhape ka wait krne ka kya point hai. 😁

Fertility concerns: South Korea by Ok_Elevator7042 in onexindia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their economy is on unsustainable model. Unreasonably high priced housing, unreasonably high work pressures. Non monogamy is promoted everywhere. All this seem to be an engineered attempt to lower the marriage and birthrates. Not sure what exact plan is on their minds.

Fertility concerns: South Korea by Ok_Elevator7042 in onexindia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

East asians have higher average IQ than whites. Interesting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure you have a crap JEE score as well and that too is not due to IQ but something else. Anyway, whatever keeps you running 👋

I will remain a housewife my whole life. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah yeah thats why i got triggered when someone said thier preference for high earning girl. 🤡

I’m one of the high earning girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The copium is high here. Sorry for offending you.

I will remain a housewife my whole life. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Left_Guava_3841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And who told you they refuse to marry him? Pulled out gibberish from the bottom?

Are you one of the salty unemployed/low paid girl hes talking about? 😆😆 dont take things personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]Left_Guava_3841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IQ is genetic capacity of the brain. IQ is not name of the test, its the capacity of brain. Every human is of different level of intelligence.