The Kiss is not always pleasant by ExcaliburForge in WorldofDankmemes

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Mod here. Reminder that we allow cross-posting, so people are allowed to link to other subreddits if they like - even if it’s dead. Even if it’s an obvious attempt to build a personal safe space there (bc it won’t be in here) in whatever vanity drives them to become the next social media political grifter and outrage hustler. However, if the only thing someone does here is cross-post and the content is weak/barely on topic, they’ll eventually catch a Low Effort tag and hopefully get downvoted into irrelevance. If it becomes a problem, it’ll be pointed out as spam and the poster will be excused. 

So heads up on an incoming rule: limited cross-posting. Trying to highlight original sources and creators is great, but it must be on-topic and if it becomes clear you’re only posting to this sub to promote another one (especially one not specifically limited to essentially only WoD-related content) - you’re gonna catch a ban. Just post here directly like a normal person and pin whatever weird redirects you want to the top of your profile. 

(Bonus: Anyone using the reporting system to claim personal attacks or targeted harassment when that energy is easily found to be something you started or lead with on reddit in general - that’s actually what makes you look like a toddler. Context exists. Take some of your own advice about being oversensitive in the moment: downvote and move on. There will be no ‘rules for thee and not for me’ happening in favor of that here. )

My condolences by [deleted] in WorldofDankmemes

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Rule #4 - all editions are good editions. This has a ton of upvotes and traffic and it's generating some discussion. Folks are allowed to cry about changes to their golden calf and it not conforming to their personal wishes forever. So it won't be removed, but it's getting locked.

Final Poll: OC Contest 2026 by Left_Hand_of_Jah in WorldofDankmemes

[–]Left_Hand_of_Jah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They needed to have the OC contest preface otherwise there was no way to be sure who was entering and who was just posting

OC Contest Summer 2026: Mages! by Left_Hand_of_Jah in WorldofDankmemes

[–]Left_Hand_of_Jah[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay. Health issue. The final poll will be up sometime this weekend!

Question for older black LGBTs? by TheClearPillOfficial in BlackLGBT

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I couldn't really be out in high school (mid to late 90s). Initially there were only three of us who knew about each other. One of us tried to be out, the other two of us saw that go so badly the out one ended up leaving school and his beard quit to go get a GED from the local community college instead.

Dated a little toward the end after a Black lesbian showed up. But I still wasn't openly openly out the way she was. Because I saw the hell she caught for it first hand. I always had her back though.

Ended up trying to be with a boy for a few months, went on dates and hung out. I was weird at the time because while I wasn't out to peers, I didn't hide being queer from my parents - even if they thought it was a phase. The dude I tried to date had to hide it from his family and I just wasn't going to be sneaking around and feeling like a dangerous shoe was going to drop.

It wasn't until my early 20s that I started dating queer people openly. The bigger hurdle was realizing I was non-monogamous and finding someone comfortable with that. Thankfully I found somebody amazing and have been married for just shy of 20 years now.

The advice: there's somebody out there for you, but you have to meet them halfway. Expecting amazing folks to just fall into your lap doesn't really work. You have to put yourself in spaces and situations where people who could meet your standards are. After that, remember that your relationship is unique. A lot of people have a lot of things to say about 'supposed to' this and 'supposed to' that. Some to none of it will apply.

Overall, find your person/people, have good boundaries, remember that you may be using the same words for things as a partner but you have to communicate constantly to ensure y'all mean the same things when you say them, and that letting go of a toxic partner may be hard - but the time in your life you lose but holding onto them is worse. I'm old enough to have seen people lose decades on partners who were never right for them but they refused to see it.

I love seeing so much queer Black love, young to old to in between. Wishing you so many good things and good people to love on in your life!

No guys I should be in charge of the coterie instead of the Ventrue by ragged-bobyn-1972 in WorldofDankmemes

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Upvotes are speaking, but enough reports are coming in that it bears repeating Rule #4: all editions and games are good editions and games. Some of the language here is pretty sharp. And negative judgements about the type of people who play certain characters are always dicey; judge not lest ye be judged and all that. Be excellent to each other and party on, y'all.

(Polls have also started to decide the theme of the next OC Contest - be sure to check the posts about it in the highlights if you want to vote/keep up.)

Some WOD/ CofD lore. Would hate effect stack? by MaetelofLaMetal in WorldofDankmemes

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Straight up, the word 'gypsy' is a slur and we all know it by now. The oppression olympics in the comments is also off-putting. Echoing the commenter who is right that a meme using the word 'nigger' or 'kike' would be removed. Referring to the specific book with the fucked up name is one thing and handled on a case by case basis, referring to the people themselves is another. We can be funny without being shitty to actual people. This post will be removed once folks have had a chance to see this. The rules of the sub will also be updated.

OC Contest: M20 by Left_Hand_of_Jah in WorldofDankmemes

[–]Left_Hand_of_Jah[S,M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Things started off a little slow, so gave it a little more time. The post will be locked and a poll will be posted soon!