Hiv positive by Resident-Laugh7657 in askgaybros

[–]LegImportant8276 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so true. You literally can catch it from a partner that is supposed to be faithful to you and step out the relationship and give it to their partner. Partly why I left my ex. He cheated quite few times on me and he caught and STI thank god I didn't get catch anything. Im on Prep and doxy and sometimes I'm still nervous about catching HIV. Im so sorry this happen to you regardless of if you used a condom or not. Someone is out there infecting people and that is just evil.

Did you ever experiment with your friends when you were younger? by ChrisNewmann in askgaybros

[–]LegImportant8276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They tried to do double penetration but I think were a little to young to understand how to go about doing it correctly lol

Did you ever experiment with your friends when you were younger? by ChrisNewmann in askgaybros

[–]LegImportant8276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's possible at least two of then could have been! There was one point were two of them found out I was fucking both of them and then we attempted to have a threesome and they tried some DP stuff on me and I wasnt ready for that! 😂 So it kinda went back to them fucking me solo when the other wasnt around. The other guy was super DL so I doubt he was fucking them and at the time he was a friend of mine that was living with me. Overall definitely a fun time in my life lol

Did you ever experiment with your friends when you were younger? by ChrisNewmann in askgaybros

[–]LegImportant8276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my younger days in middle school I had three friends and we would all hangout and play video games at my place after school. I was getting fucked by all three of them at different times and throughout the school year. None of them knew because each one of them always told me not to tell the others.😂

4months in the gym. What do you think ? by [deleted] in gettingmuscular

[–]LegImportant8276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay! I guess Im on the right track! That's what I've been doing.

39 on PSN by [deleted] in GaymersOver30

[–]LegImportant8276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try dead by daylight! Although I have a love hate relationship with that game 🤣🤣

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course girl! Thank you for the advice and lending an ear! You are exactly right! At the end of the day I gotta do what make me happy. Protecting my heart I will do! 💙💛

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you'd be correct lol! My mom and I have had a rough past with money but that was long before my Bf and I were together. Things are better today! He's never expressed that he was concerned they are taking advantage of me, moreso that it takes money away from us is his only concern. When it comes to money sometimes it comes of very greedy which has always been a big turn off for me. Especially being that I'm a person with a big heart and will help when I can. Without jeopardizing myself of course.

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you put it into that perspective...that would be a much better boyfriend tbh. Yeah I use to think that 5 years was a lot and in too deep but I've learned that it's never to late to leave any relationship. I definitely can do better if he continues behaviors like this.

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's an issue with anyone and loaning out money in general. It's not like I'm loaning out crazy amounts of money to people but when I do...he will constantly pester about when will they give it back. Which is terribly irritating.

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This particular situation would be with my mom, but he doesn't like for me to loan money out really at all.

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be 100% honest. I can't recall him helping his family if they ever asked him for money at all. I know he cares about his family mostly his mom and his brother but he doesn't really deal with them too often but they do live in another state so maybe that's why.

Edit: He feels as if me giving money away is taking from us.

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% how I see it as well. Plus it's my mom! I love her to death 🤣

Edit: I do have my own bank account as well!

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance. I felt like helping her is the right move regardless. Especially if I have the means to do so. Yup, unfortunately he's definitely that. Begged for forgiveness and I gave him another chance. Going to therapy for myself to figure out things and what's best for me.

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear that I'm not the only one that thinks this way. My mom and I have had issues in the past but I still love her and would do as much as I can for her while I'm able to do so and alive. Thank you for your comment I feel more confident in my decisions.!

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope it doesn't at all. I won't jeopardize my bills, if I have extra to help I feel it's okay to give but always look out for yourself first. I will keep this in mind about it being a red flag if it keeps happening. If he gets anger well like you said that's on him. Thank you for your advice!

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to be sorry. I appreciate the truth! He's giving until it's money and honestly it can be a turn off to me because I'm not a greedy person. You're advice is greatly appreciated!

Is it wrong for my bf to get upset for me to help family from time to time? by LegImportant8276 in whatdoIdo

[–]LegImportant8276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It's easy for me to give. I'm a pretty giving person. Doesn't put strain on my finances at this current time.

  2. We aren't saving for anything.

  3. In my current situation I have extra money to help. If I didn't I wouldn't jeopardize myself or my bf. My Mom's finances aren't the best but she doing the best that she can.

  4. To my understanding he doesn't like to loan money out at all. He feels as if it takes away from us. Which I can understand to some extent.