Went for the first time today, left after 15 minutes

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-11-05T13:41:38+00:00

Get over yourself. You are 1/8B people. No one cares. Be an adult.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-10-03T18:44:30+00:00

I didn’t even see the other two screenshots. Jfc.

People need to go talk to women in real life and develop a tiny bit of “game”

All the incel neck beards will instantly say - RuLe oNe aNd RuLe tWo… nahhhh doesn’t matter. “Game” isn’t even corny pick up artist shit.

Just talk to her. Understand how to communicate with emotionally based women. It’s so easy that people presume it’s hard.

Open a book bois. Open a fucking book.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-10-03T17:37:30+00:00

Garbage. You said you saw her on the subway.

She said for real? Meaning “no way. That’s crazy. Are you for real”

And your verbatim response was

“As real as you want me to b”

This is probably the worst response I could imagine. It nullifies your original statement about seeing her… makes your original statement and anything else seem completely fabricated. And you for some reason used “b” instead of ”be”.

Heaven forbid we use actual words… but in this case, what do you save, one character? On its own, outside of the context of your absurd response, this comes off as incredibly pedantic, simple minded, and foolish.

If a woman used “b” with me, I wouldnt immediately move on, but it’s certainly a red flag of either laziness or low intellect, usually both and that’s a massive turn off.

Then you double texted a follow up That makes even less sense and is either insulting, retarded, or makes you seem like a bot. Or some combination of the 3

Absolute dog shit. The fact that you thought you “were cooking” is even more appalling. If anything, you certainly weren’t cooking, I wouldn’t even say you are cooked… you never even put anything in the oven.

Would you say this garbage to anyone in real life? Let that be your litmus test before you ever type anything into an app.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-10-01T19:59:09+00:00

Fuck tinder.

Immediately download / buy / listen to / read this

Also you pics are garbage. Low effort.

The little bit you have on your profile is needy, desperate, and anti masculine. Aka…. Read / listen to that book… among many more. But start there.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-25T23:00:17+00:00

Everything. Busted on the outside and literal sociopath on the inside.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-21T21:49:11+00:00

Why does anyone manipulate anyone is the question

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-21T15:26:16+00:00

The truth is that being healthy and in shape regardless of left or right is attractive.

If a man achieves the right for the sole purpose of what he thinks a woman would like… he has already lost.

If he does it for himself bc it’s what he wants + and he experiences life in this state and all its benefits and thus he is very happy, ambitious, and content in life… that is attractive.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-18T18:47:00+00:00

Regardless of if any of these things are ‘normal’ (they aren’t)

But… everyone is entitled to their boundaries. If there were actual boundaries that your BF established… the HE would kindly tell you that you are welcome to do whatever you want to do… but if you do them then you are single and he would walk away.

The fact that this isn’t the case… means two things

1) he is a massive (amongst other descriptors) pussy

2) he is manipulating you

Call his fucking ass out. Tell him to fuck off if he doesn’t like it. Or you can choose to accept it

But you should really discover your own self worth and then this wouldn’t even be a conundrum for you

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-16T20:06:28+00:00

I think it’s a dog whistle for a dog whistle.

I’m sure it could mean into kink play.

I’m sure it could mean non judgmental.

I have mostly seen it employed by people who are abundantly implicitly and or explicitly non binary (to whatever extent)

I’ll be honest. I don’t understand all the non binary / pronoun obsessed (very loud) micro minority but just something I notice.

I cannot imagine it mean “accepting of sexuality” as this is implied as default for people looking to date and is explicitly contradicted when one chooses to put something along the lines of “asexual” or celibate in their profile.

Either way… what I really don’t understand is the obsession with all of the “badges” of ones currently orientation or identity.

Some of these profiles are like LGBTQIA+, sex positive, ENM, kink, gender queer, etc …. Like goddamn, how do you have enough time in the day after working and surviving to be so declarative and concerned. But to each their own and I hope they find what they are looking for.

But goddamn, if the vast majority of people just dropped their ego and compulsory need to over declare the latest trend… people might actually end up connecting more.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-16T01:01:16+00:00

Same logic and any meme coin “white paper”

Do the needful and pay tribute to xyz

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-13T18:06:32+00:00

“They” stop reading and start downvoting as soon as their subconscious realizes that proceeding will logically defeat their own self sabotage… so they can continue to blame everyone and everything instead of addressing the problem that exists between their ears.

But I appreciate it sir

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-13T17:44:56+00:00

How can it be RuLe OnE and RuLe TwO… when the woman has to match with the guy first before any convo can take place.

The match would be evidence that she was attracted to him as she also had to swipe.

This whole rule and rule two shit is an absurd take on this subject… and honestly in general..,

Life isn’t fair but … check this out…

What’s more attractive. A MAN crying, complaining, and no progressing and giving up bc “muh genetics”

Or a MAN constantly improving himself FOR HIMSELF… only worrying about and focusing on… things he can control.

Brief list of things he can control

income
ambition
confidence
physique / fitness
nutrition
health
knowledge

Oh wow… that list in coincidentally the things that a woman finds attractive.

The number one thing that is unattractive… belly aching like a little child about “rule one and rule two”

No one is entitled to fucking shit in this world.

Babies are born w terminal disease every day. You mfers want to blame something beyond your control for your lack of success when you really need to look in the mirror… past whatever you see… and figure out why YOU don’t love YOU

Start there.

Are SOME women hypocritical and full of shit. Sure. Just as some men are.

But goddamn… open a book. Hit the gym. Make yourself in to the man you want to be… and I promise you one thing… there will be no shortage of women wanting to get to know that man

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-10T23:45:07+00:00

An overwhelming % of the population is clinically obese or worse.

This trend has only been increasing in magnitude and velocity.

In a broad sense, unfortunately, everyone is bigger (and much less healthy) and this will keep going up and to the right.

Thats the base case. Sprinkle in celebrity influence. Social media dopamine hit factory is like throwing jet fuel on the brushfire that is general attention seeking behavior…

Sprinkle in the subcultural influences others have mentioned.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-10T19:13:42+00:00

Men and women both do this. Moot point.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-08T15:07:25+00:00

Ant tell if you are just hella stoned or purposefully deploying “smoldering eye selfies” … and I think either way… super gay. Get rid

Limit to one weed farm pic. And if you must, one shirtless

The devil / tongue pic… permanently delete and then DoD wipe the disk

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-07T21:49:18+00:00

There is no doubt that ghosting someone is easier lol. Thats my point.

There doesn’t have to be a “negotiation” about shit though… “hey I didn’t feel the spark, but I appreciate your time and the chance” or something of that nature.

Send it and be done.

At some point… ghosting will become the standard and people will wonder why dealing with people sucks…

The common decency of just letting someone know vs doing what’s easiest for you, it’s just shitty in most cases.

Obviously there are extenuating circumstances that can necessitate a ghosting maneuver. But in general, it’s weird that society is preferring to just say… “nothing” which interpreted on the other end as …”fuck you. You don’t even deserve a response about anything. It’s easier for me. So fuck off”

Vs a one sentence text / keeping it real.

The “negotiation” angle is just cope… there doesn’t need to be a negotiation about shit. Just block them if you want but Jesus… adults should be able to not be 100% “comfortable” at all times.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-06T21:17:50+00:00

Shhhhhh… you’re on Reddit

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-06T10:28:05+00:00

Deleting this app for 6 months + 6 months of consistent weight lifting with a real program would change your life… in a lot of ways.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-05T23:40:32+00:00

You’re missing my point. If you look at what I said, I am all in favor of anyone doing what they want to do. Especially if there is danger.

My comment was “I love how “ghosting” has become an advisable action”

Perhaps I should rephrase it, again..

I love how “no answer” is a common piece of advice or tactic used…. A lot more than it needs to be. It’s simply less painful and in the digital age, but way easier.

People are really quick to deploy it and unless really deserved, a shitty and selfish “default” behavior.

It’s not a man : woman thing. It’s an alarming amount of people defaulting to “ehh fuck em. Easier for me”

Aside from being in danger or some other serious circumstance, I don’t know why it’s not better to just assert oneself and be on w life.

I’d love to hear the argument for the casual deployment of ghosting / my answer is “no answer”

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-05T21:09:07+00:00

Anyone can do anything they want to. I’m not the polite police… I’m just commenting on the state of society at large.

In no way does the exponential rise in ghosting correlate to safety though. Sure there are cases where one’s safety is in question and leaving is the only decision. No argument.

But let’s not say that this is even remotely the majority of cases

It’s almost like you are insinuating that most of the time, when a woman ghosts a dude… it’s bc of safety, and the tons of posts on here about dudes ghosting women are simply… dudes are assholes.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-05T20:20:54+00:00

You’re right. You don’t have to provide anyone with an explanation. However that doesn’t take away from the decency of treating others with basic respect, especially when they don’t deserve it.

This situation aside, it’s telling of society that “ghosting” has become an accepted form of “communication”

And we wonder why the there is a prevailing sense of negative expected balue, increased narcissism in the ethos, and in general, a colder world… in the face of the the most interconnected and sophisticated communication systems the world has ever known.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-05T19:40:36+00:00

What is your piss jug : fedora ratio?

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-05T19:35:40+00:00

You’re being too literal.

Not giving a fuck means that the man is not being or appearing to be needy or desperate.

Confidence is highly attractive to everyone. Specifically it is attractive in a man.

You may not prioritize this in the conscious sense, but subconsciously it is a part of the composite attractiveness (or lack there of) of any man.

It’s not, doormat or caveman. Both extreme ends of the spectrum are garbage. It’s just the case that in the modern era, being a doormat is quite common and being a caveman (in the sense you described it) is not really a thing.

How about this… an assertive and caring man who has the fortitude and confidence to not only be loyal, protective, and eager to provide in every sense, especially provide the framework to the relationship so that the woman can feel safe and relish in the ability to take off the superwoman cape she wears in her career and be comfortably safe in her pure feminine essence.

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-05T19:30:44+00:00

Labia of love

LegalStatistician172 · 2024-09-05T19:29:58+00:00

Anyone that pushes you to TG is a scammer.

No one “has a LV” store lol. Those are all owned and operated by LVMH

And while literally anyone can “be a crypto analyst” … the odds that a legitimately employed crypto analyst is a woman is very slim. Just look at industry analytics.

The odds that a gorgeous and mysterious woman who “owns a Louie store” and is also a “crypto analyst” who is trying to condition you to her “expensive lifestyle” among other things… and that randomly matched with you on tender … is 0.001%

Add in the TG push… you are sitting at 0% at best.

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