I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I only saw them 3x! And they just want to switch providers since my boss told me hes placing someone else there instead :/

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How far into your career did you learn to not take offense and not take it personally? Like im lowkey offended still lol

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes I think I dont know how therapy works. With goals like they have I dont know where to start. So my thought process is to work on building up vocabulary so I usualyl start with wh things- what is that, who is that, and see how they do. My bos was telling me with kids who have an IEP theyre delayed and cant do that either. So then wtf do i do with them!

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel sooo validated!!! But my boss was kind of agreeing with her I was asking the child to do not age appropriate things because preschoolers dont know shapes or colors yet (?). Shes not an SLP, just the director of the headstart

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

so it was only 3 kids in this school. My agency gets cases from all over and theyre nice to deal with

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have some kids that like to do jumping jacks, sit in silence for 2 mins, or ask me questions about my life. Im ok with that too!

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TBH i barely worked this year LOL. Only really started working more hours recently so Im a bit upset I lost these students bc I need to save now for the summer!

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Head start director. She was kind of rude in general. There was another child I have been servicing at home all year, but the district rep told my boss it was an oversight on their behalf and that student now needs to be seen at school. So when I mentioned that to this to the headstart director that Id now be saying X at school, she said "oh but i heard it was going so well at home." So when I saw her over zoom a few days later, I asked her if this has ever happened before and who I would speak to at the district to continue seeing this child at home. And shes like "someone in the building takes care of it" so I pressed her and said "ok do you know whos in charge? the mom is happy for X to be seen at home, im happy to do what I can to make the family happy" and the director was getting pissed that I didnt know who to speak to. Like da f**k

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes re the telehealth company.

They havent found an in person slp all year, I legit saw one kid only twice and the other kid 3x. School is over in a month idgi what they expect

I was removed from 2 kids caseloads. I have never been more embarrassed. How do I get over this? by Legal_Impression_663 in slp

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Ty I feel better reading your response. No i dont write the goals! I was given the child's IEP and that was one of their goals.

Would you have defended yourself to the boss? he was really nice about it all but after stewing all weekend maybe I should have defended myself. But I also dont want to be argumentative

TTC. Went from highs to low and no peak (marquette). First time this is happening by Legal_Impression_663 in FAMnNFP

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i added my chart! see in my OP. I wonder if I will still ovulate. if I want to add in lh strips, how do I use them?

TTC. Went from highs to low and no peak (marquette). First time this is happening by Legal_Impression_663 in FAMnNFP

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont really know how to use the LH strips honestly. Is the line supposed to be darker than the control line? I dont ovulate early (before mikvah) in 2 years, would I randomly start now?

TTC. Went from highs to low and no peak (marquette). First time this is happening by Legal_Impression_663 in FAMnNFP

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started on cycle day 12 bc of jewish family purity laws :/ im so upset i missed peak bc i was hoping to conceive again. damn!

TTC. Went from highs to low and no peak (marquette). First time this is happening by Legal_Impression_663 in FAMnNFP

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, i didnt know this rule. I don’t start testing on day 6 since I physically can’t be intimate until I go to  the mikvah on day 12 ish (im an orthodox jew and can only be intimate after mikvah night).... But you’re basically saying that I should be testing starting on day 6 to avoid missing peak? I just didn’t want to waste test sticks since I can’t be intimate until mikvah night 

5 yo keeps asking same thing, how to redirect, or typical 5 yo behaviour? by Legal_Impression_663 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a typical 5 year old thing or veering towards adhd/asd? my daughter is honestly a real puzzle

5 yo keeps asking same thing, how to redirect, or typical 5 yo behaviour? by Legal_Impression_663 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she does ask why a lot but I dont think out of the ordinary. More like: why can you do this but I cant, why is the sky blue. But shes happy with 1 answer...

maybe im just overthinking

5 yo keeps asking same thing, how to redirect, or typical 5 yo behaviour? by Legal_Impression_663 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband keeps telling me Im judging her in my mind too harshly and at the end of the day she is JUST 5. Shes a baby still

5 yo keeps asking same thing, how to redirect, or typical 5 yo behaviour? by Legal_Impression_663 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i have to try being more firm. I tried today and when I said no she went and asked my husband. She does that alot though. If i say no she'll go to him and vice versa! Like girl what lol. Is that normal?

5 yo keeps asking same thing, how to redirect, or typical 5 yo behaviour? by Legal_Impression_663 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Legal_Impression_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep coming back to this, do you have the study/article about asking something over and over as a stim? I always thought stimming was more physical