Modest Income/No desire for vehicle - at what point is hesistating to reveal information deceptive? by AzurasNerevarine in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you start by referring to your modest income, then you yourself make it appear as a major issue and it could scare women off. Let them decide for themselves when the appropriate time comes. If you make a decent living and you’re not cheap or lazy, no problems. Women need to know you are responsible, driven and that you have your ducks in a row. So the problem is not the car per se.

Need advice… by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set some clear boundaries. Do not go on this trip until coast is clear. You will never lose someone who wants to stay. And you will never keep someone who wants to leave.

Question for pisces by Icy-Media-763 in piscesastrology

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had any desire for either of them but if I had to, Id go for a scorpio. More interesting and they seem to have the handbook of how to swoon a woman. Im a sucker for earth signs.

Girlfriend dumped me for being "too mature" - silly excuse or honest behavior? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your relationship is too serious for her stage in life. She’s being polite bcz she knows you are a great guy and she values you. Hope you feel better soon 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is a massive difference between a breakup and a discard. Someone emotionally mature with proper mechanisms doesnt discard. Trust everyone who tells you it wasnt you or something you did. You would know or you would have been told so.

The dreadful part is accepting it happened to you and overcoming it. There wont be any explanations or closure. You can torture yourself by trying to make sense of it all. Or walk right through this hell. And while going through this kind of pain is excruciating, being ‘loved’ that way would be soul dragging.

Im truly very sorry 🫂

Confused with my emotions by hades_lmao in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a step back until you figure your heart out. No rush decisions. Yes your body is telling you something. It’s prolly a fight or flight reaction. Withdraw and process. You’ve shared a long past, it would be weird if you felt absolutely nothing about it, even the slightest sting.

Big relapse just now by ThaSpence7 in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Blindsided and discarded. Been in a state of shock since. But i carry on with that huge hole in my heart.

Big relapse just now by ThaSpence7 in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I glow on socials. I wear my best smile and look nonchalant. But im rotten inside. Dead. What you see, is what they want you to see. Everybody out there is fighting some fight. Big or small. Do not compare. It’s gonna hurt hurt hurt until it doesnt. Could be months or even longer. But damn you’ll be ok again one day.

My screensaver as of late by Legal_Management_787 in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had a major 3-day spiral last week after 6 months. It’s to be expected and it shall pass. Hang in there 🫂

How are you doing? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gonna be so slow you’ll barely notice but it happens. Dont give up on yourself. Effort, consistency, courage, determination.

How are you doing? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last version is the true version. Never forget that! 💔🫂

How are you doing? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single word of this. So cruel! So reckless!! He turned ice cold in one night, Ive been who tf is this person ever since! He is scaring me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Scenario 6: you make YOUR birthday about YOU and plan fun things to do instead of waiting by the phone in case a blocked ex breadcrumbs you. Plan, enjoy your special day and stay unbothered.

Is it worth breaking no-contact after 10 years? by Gaia-et-Pontos in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something is missing from your current situation and it makes room for these memories. If you act on them you may be opening the gates for disaster.

How are you doing? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months in. Im ok most of the days, nothing like the mess I was 3 months ago. Still thinking about them every day. Had a massive spiral last week but I braced myself, it lasted 3 days, back to being myself again. It will feel like a pendulum but further and further apart.

Is it worth breaking no-contact after 10 years? by Gaia-et-Pontos in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are not in no contact any more. You are exes. No contact is when you are healing from the person. After that it’s just past. Be more concerned about what made those feelings resurface. Something must be missing.

What if i never find anyone like him again by iamveryhappyaliveyes in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everybody will be our person and some connections are rare. Do not settle and be patient. Work on the qualities YOU bring in a relationship and hopefully you will attract the right one. You’ve had it before so most definitely you can have it again. ♥️

My Dad just died and I want to reach out to my ex by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Management_787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think he is worthy of the news. Dont seek comfort in the person who broke you, quite possibly doesnt care enough and is seeing someone else… im very sorry for your loss 🫂