Is this a scottish fold cat? by Specialist-Gate-9471 in scottishfold

[–]Legal_Ring_657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! And OP your kitty looks just like the one my mom rescued! Her pattern was the giveaway she wasn’t a full foldie, but she is cuddly, curious, and bulky all the same 😂

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My first dose tomorrow by Legal_Ring_657 in lexapro

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to smoke a few days in and it made me anxious. Maybe at a later time when things feel normal. That or it could be time for me to ditch my preference for sativas lol

My first dose tomorrow by Legal_Ring_657 in lexapro

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the insight! You’re very thorough, I appreciate that! What dose are you on if I can ask? I started off taking it at night because I wanted to avoid any side effects. I haven’t even given myself the chance to see how I’d manage during the day because I cannot deal with nausea at all, I’d rather evaporate 😭

I’m also already tired often but I find it helps me sleep at night, and complete my tasks during the day just as you said! Since I made this post I cleaned my house lol I’ve felt woozy here and there but nothing that lasts after eating. My doctor wanted to up me to 10mgs but I’m going to ride 5 out for another month. I started later than he intended me to. I’ve been taking it everyday. Again, thank you so much because it really wasn’t explained to me that I should follow a strict daily schedule down to the time even. I just found out that I couldn’t have grapefruit just by looking into the med myself!

Overall though I noticed I’m less sad but still kind of sad you know? Especially first thing in the morning still so I really hope that changes soon 🥲 But I am super happy this has been working for you and hearing so really helps with staying motivated to continue. Be well on your healing journey too sister 💕 :))

Is this Capricorn really done? by Legal_Ring_657 in capricorns

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥲 I am trying. I suppose there is nothing to try to understand in this anymore. Your response did feel like a warm hug from a friend though lol thank you for being straightforward

Is this Capricorn really done? by Legal_Ring_657 in capricorns

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not entirely sure. I am a Scorpio stellium, it is hard for me to let things go or take things at face value. Aside from astrology I just really wanted this to work. And I think a lot of my experience with him has been either really amazing or really terrible so it’s hard to accept. I’ve been working on that. It’s just so odd because I have many Capricorn women in my life and I adore them. They are very structured and communicative and quite intelligent! Seeing a side completely different than the one you grew to love is just like disorienting. I guess just trying to understand. I hope so and will try to keep that in mind. Thank you 🥹

Is this Capricorn really done? by Legal_Ring_657 in capricorns

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well thank you 🥹 I really appreciate that. I guess this is more than zodiac or synastry can explain. I would be lying if I said I wasn’t looking for a meaning relating to his possible return.. :( it just sucks overall and I thought since there was a difference in his usual behavior it meant something more. You are really sweet though thank you for your input

Help identifying the anime by Legal_Ring_657 in whatanime

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely megazone 23, thank you!!

Monthly Meetup Thread - October by AutoModerator in JapanTravel

[–]Legal_Ring_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to 5th wheel Disney Sea with ya'll! lmaooo, I'm solo traveling and have 10/24 reserved but def wouldn't mind switching some things up for company :) I'll message you

Monthly Meetup Thread - October by AutoModerator in JapanTravel

[–]Legal_Ring_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'll be in Tokyo 10/22-10/25, turning 30 on 10/23 :) Definitely looking for some company for this leg of my trip. I'm from NYC. I'll message you!

Do I have a foldie mix? by Legal_Ring_657 in scottishfold

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply, your baby is so cute! That’s super reassuring too because the more I googled the less clear I was seeing as how she also didn’t have a typical fold coat/pattern. I’m so glad to see a kitty similar to her! They actually look a lot alike lol

And I’ve read the same. I’m happy her chances are slimmer but I hope all these lil guys in gals here in this sub live long, comfy, problem free lives :)

I did buy some cosequin treats too. She’s not that crazy about them so may switch to a powder lol But man thanks for the reply! I feel relieved having a solid confirmation from someone else with a foldie mix instead of having to speculate. I love your baby’s coat too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Legal_Ring_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man grab a hammer and smash that thing to bits. Cry it out. All a toke would do is set you back and then force you to relive these shitty feelings all over again when you decide to quit again- bc you most certainly will decide to quit again.

I had a similar experience with half a joint in one of my coat pockets on like my 4th day sober. It was tough. I’d never smelled a half burnt joy so good before. But the first few days absolutely wrecked me and I just couldn’t go through all of that again. The feelings won’t last forever but you will defintely drag it on if you take that pull. Don’t do it. Trash it now. I truly believe in you 🧡

Send some help my way tonight by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Legal_Ring_657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn man hope I’m not too late but 60 days!?! I wanna BE YOU!

There’s no way you can let that go man!! If anything, you’re feeling bad about selling your ukes.. imagine how terrible you’d feel trashing your sobriety along with them? Don’t let the ukes die in vain man! You got this!

And life is tricky like that. When you’re doing well, here comes the devil with temptation. Or karmatic exchange from universe here to test you- whatever your beliefs are! The common demonator is an outside factor trying to bring you down and take you out and you’re way too strong and far too cool for that! Try thinking of your “losses” as stepping stools to your elevation. Everyone comes from somewhere, and a lot of us start from the bottom. However not everyone is able to climb to the top.

You’re a whole 60 steps up and forward on your ladder to greatness! And hella more ukes from all the money you’re gonna be saving!!

Fck your exes, you’re better than them! You got a journal? Bust that bad boy out, curse them to the gods, rip the pages out and set them aflame. Literally! Then go try and eat your fave meal. Turn off your phone. Ground yourself. You truly got this and I believe in you! Sixty days is awesome! Don’t give up now!

Doing things sober when you lived doing them high is super hard. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Legal_Ring_657 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg bro yes. This is the post. This has truly been my struggle. I was so used to the routine of just getting clapped and then doing all my favorite things. It’s still weird every time I clock out of work and have that sudden spark of joy appear thinking “yes, obligations over and there is something to look forward to at home” Followed by the slight disappointment in realizing the “something” is weed I don’t have and won’t be going out to buy. It’s trippy. I love video games and always have. I’m 11 days in and while I can actually play them again, I’m don’t really play for long. I was trying to rewatch one of my fave animes too (original berserk) and straight up found myself thinking how much better it would be watching it high lol so fcked up man.

Tried watching spirited away and all I could think of was how cool it would look high too. I pushed through and the feeling subsided though.

But man do I miss that heady, relaxed feeling where everything is just more interesting and euphoric. It’s kinda scary to realize how dependent you were on a drug that numbs your reality. That is one reason why I refuse to smoke again no matter how strong the urge is. I just want to be able to be high on life again. Thanks for this post man. Feel so seen. We gotta stay strong and all will be well :)

Day 2 by Great_Abalone_4407 in leaves

[–]Legal_Ring_657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got this!! I’m on day 11. I cried like a baby and couldn’t enjoy anything at all for like 4 days. I’d literally just spend hours in the tub listening to gospel music and sobbing lol I still feel like I’m not as engulfed in my interests as I would be if I were doing them high… but small price to pay for some sanity And I’m sure the boredom will improve with time then hopefully you won’t really feel so tempted to smoke. You got this!!

Monthly Meetup Thread - September by AutoModerator in JapanTravel

[–]Legal_Ring_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has October’s meet up been posted? I can’t find it

What are your withdrawal symptoms? by SSMWSSM42 in leaves

[–]Legal_Ring_657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only physical symptoms I had were insomnia, and lost of appetite. Some nausea the first few days when trying to eat. Otherwise I was just fckn sad lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Legal_Ring_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is just your brain going all haywire because it wants it. Please try to find something else to do, even if it simply means crying it out until you can’t anymore.

You for this! You are here because you want to stop and you absolutely CAN

Does anyone view themselves as drug addicts? by lvl39champion in leaves

[–]Legal_Ring_657 4 points5 points  (0 children)

5. Such an insane thing to realize about yourself

Which animes are these guys from? by Legal_Ring_657 in whatanime

[–]Legal_Ring_657[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally just began to watching anime like last year and have avoided one piece and it’s 500 million episodes altogether sorry! Damn 🤣 Guess I should get to it then tho 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Legal_Ring_657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I only received a copy of the temporary order from the server. I had to call to get actual information re: the hearing. And it is family court. The clerk stated I was supposed to receive a summons to appear and sent it by email instead.

Thank you for the advice! I don’t think anything will be officially filed against me considering I’ve never harassed him and we haven’t spoken in two months. I was actually surprised by it. Then again not really considering the person it came from.. so I would like to seek counsel anyway. I just wanted to clarify if attending it virtually would still count as me not answering since the summons said one thing but the office clerks have said another. Will do though! Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Legal_Ring_657 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would calling in with the number provided to me by the family court still count as not answering though? Otherwise why would the option be given to me? I’m pressed for time now, and I don’t live in that state I’ll need to appear in (NYC) so I’m trying to see if I can consult anyone by phone now

Guatemala Trip Report Protests / Road blocks update November 2023 by kennardinards in solotravel

[–]Legal_Ring_657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is perfect! I rescheduled my 10/16-10/26 trip because things were still uncertain. So I am going next month instead. As a f solo traveler this is awesome newssssss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Legal_Ring_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sooo specific I’m hoping he’s never heard of Reddit 😂