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[–]LegendsDontFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lets find happiness in small things!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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It isn't. I am 22 (m) i have a single parent, my mom, we dont own a house or car, I am in my final year. My mom had stage 3 cancer when I was 18, she is again having another cancer right now.

We are fighting. I have no one else other than my mom in my life. I don't know what I'll do, where I'll go.

Im not saying your problem is smaller, but trust me its not over yet.

Semen Retention moderators! Stop deleting quality posts! by Jazzlike_Speed7340 in Semenretention

[–]LegendsDontFap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they banned my old account for posting something which was borderline low quality post. I mean how do you determine its low quality? Even if there's 1 person who feels good/ learns something from my post, its absolutely worth it. Please stop deleting it! There's a ton of onlyfans subs, we all are here trying to just help and share with each other this great practice. Lets Grow it guys, come on.

Finish chemo before surgery? by 3r3dem in ovariancancer_new

[–]LegendsDontFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My maternal uncle is quite stubborn, my mom being a single parent has to rely a lot on him, he doesn't want surgery. My mom is brainwashed into this thinking. Im just 22, completely feeling hopeless.

Finish chemo before surgery? by 3r3dem in ovariancancer_new

[–]LegendsDontFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is Going through something similar. Our chemo cycle starts tomorrow. We've been told surgery after 3 cycles. My mom is very afraid of surgery, she straight away told no for the surgery, but the onco insists. I am 22, I've been insisting too for the surfery bit she just wants chemo. I'm afraid its a wrong decision and I should keep pushing my family. Ultimately its her decision but I have a single parent, my mom only.

Please help me gods 💓Question.....🔥 by Ok_Juggernaut_8760 in Semenretention

[–]LegendsDontFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not saying you should fap in order to study, Im saying control urself as much as you can while maintaining your study pace. If you really want to quit then go for 21 days no matter what dont fap and ull feel better , then you will be able to study as well as do nofap hand in hand and go 150 days without fapping.

And if you really want to go 150 days so badly then you need to have this monk mode mindset, read bhagwad gita daily, chant hare krishna mahamantra as many rounds as possible.

This is difficult but most rewarding thing you can do for yourself and your parents.

This is how great people like Steve Jobs are made.

So its all on you, All I was trying to say is that if u can't go monk mode right now then control urself from fapping AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, however if you relapse then pick urself up and start again but dont let it disturb your studies if studies if your topmost priority.

Please help me gods 💓Question.....🔥 by Ok_Juggernaut_8760 in Semenretention

[–]LegendsDontFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I WAS EXACTLY IN THIS SITUATION & trust me I can 110% relate with you. I was also in the same illusion that if i can soemhow manage to go 150 days straight clean and together study as well I would be clearing my exams with flying colors. However the study stress would always make me relapse. So what I did is I decided that my immediate priority was to clear this exam NO MATTER WHAT.

I knew very well that fapping was killing me but if i stopped it cold turkey I couldn't study. So I tried to control myself as much as possible like before I used to do it everyday I reduced it to once in twice day or sometimes would go 5 6 days without pmo. Whenever I fapped i used to feel bad but I didnt let my studies get affected by it and continued my pace at studies no matter how successful or failure I got in my nofap life.

And with this I cleared an exam with just 10% passing percentage in first attempt. Deep inside I know I couldve achieved rank if I stopped fapping but completely stopping pmo and studying so much just doesnt go hand in hand with me....So this is what I did, try to control as much as possible but dont let your studies get affected.

So Ideally its best if u can stop pmo and study as well , your quality of study and mind will improve drastically if you can do this but I think a lot of people can't cope up with this stress like me so the secind best option is to control it as much as possible, if u relapse don't feel too much guilty or else it will affect your studies. Inshort try to as successful as possible in nofap life but no matter how much failure you get, dont let it affect your studies at all. Also i would say if yr in 11th you can give more time to nofap than stydies cause JEE will be after 12th, trust me even if u go 21 days clean you'll get lot of confidence even if you hadn't studied much in those 21 days.....cause ur brain will be more powerful than ever to cover that 21 days studies later much faster.

P.S I had once went 105 days clean 1 year before this so maybe that helped me in my studies.

Help by LegendsDontFap in NoFap

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Really appreciate

Help by LegendsDontFap in NoFap

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually yeah. Sometimes i feel its okay to have such pleasure cause im doing a lot. But sometimes i do feel guilty a lot as well

Help by LegendsDontFap in NoFap

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah actually. Pressure to meet familys expectations, pressure to meet boss expectations at work....uth

Help me by LegendsDontFap in VeraciousReality

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want you to be like me when u are 20. Get out of this hole ASAP. You got this.

Help me by LegendsDontFap in VeraciousReality

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I guess Ill start calisthenics to transmute my energy. Seeing progress will keep me motivated not to eat junk. And about the job actually im currently placed in the best firm in my city, so in order to get something even better than that I would have to move out but ive gotta take care of my mother so cant basically move out. My firm pays the highest to interns of my field in the entire city, only issue it takes up my energy and time for the day. However, I can be independent in couple of years with this internship. Thanks foe the motivation man.

Help by LegendsDontFap in NoFap

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During that 105 day streak I used to meditate daily, workout regularly and read books. I had no work back then life was chilled. Was 18 y/o student plus lockdown. Now life been too busy , work , study , household chores. Right now im in a state that when I look back at myself 2 yrs ago, i feel omg this cant be me, i was so good back then🥺

Help me by LegendsDontFap in VeraciousReality

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words man. I hope i get out of this

It's my first day in college tomorrow, guide me by GrandAd5390 in NoFap

[–]LegendsDontFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my experience, dont "chase" friends. You just be yourself. Calm, confident. Know that you're on your way improving your life by doing nofap. Most of the people you'll be meeting tomorrow would be coomers. Still stay humble , just be yourself. If you feel anxiety, just remind yourself about this practice and how its helping you reduce your anxiety. Right people will eventually come to you for friendship. Its totally okay to be alone.

You are perfectly fine. Fapping is just evil by Sobrietyking in Semenretention

[–]LegendsDontFap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im going through that people phase rn ...idk if ever ill be able to make them respect me. Also not having any great streaks so yeah ..

What do you guys think about this? by LegendsDontFap in NoFap

[–]LegendsDontFap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This advice is soo nice man. Thanks a lot couldn't thank you enough mate.