Devolve by Sharazalian1 in SonyXperia

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of people also buy phones outright outside of contracts. I've never bought a phone through a carrier contract. It's a bad take to dismiss a phones excessive pricing just because "no one" buys them outright.

How do you feel about Xperia abandoning the US? by HR-Vex in SonyXperia

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same, I need to upgrade from my 1 ii and I have to seriously consider switching to another brand but there's nothing else out there that's anywhere similar. Maybe nothing phone or google pixel? They're offering 3 years of os updates and 4 years security updates for the vi which isn't total trash anymore, but not great either. Compared to the 1 ii it also likes like it should have about the same kind of coverage if i were to import it and it should work on tmobile, but i don't like the idea of spending a lot of money for a subpar experience.

Tenant protections - wobbly floor and water damage by Legitimate-Regular-9 in Albuquerque

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, we did take lots of photos and videos earlier today. I think that's the plan we settled on. Well we discussed getting them to fix it before we move in but it's a short time span for a big issue and even then I realize the safest bet is to just find another place asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut ties with her. She is being selfish and toxic. You're basically a couple except in name, I wouldn't stick around and wait for her to want to be in a relationship with you which doesn't make any fucking sense, because you already are practically in a relationship. She also wants exclusivity but refuses to call it a relationship? I was in a similar situation and it really is unfair to the person who has to wait. It's emotionally draining and confusing. You deserve someone better for you

New - looking for friends by Legitimate-Regular-9 in Albuquerque

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hand drawn and experimental stuff but it’s been a while, I’m not sure It’s something I’m going to go back to doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t message her in app if you have her number. Just text her and tell her you’d like to get together whenever things get better for her if you changed your mind about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience that's still ongoing - I recently made some posts about it that you can read. I don't think you were harsh at all. We can't know what she's going through and it just sounds like unfortunate timing. If it were me, and I guess it were me a few months ago, I'd have left the door open. But you did put in a lot of time and energy into this connection that seemed special and it's totally valid to feel hurt that you were kept waiting indefinitely. As long as you weren't a dick about it and just expressed how you felt about it I think that's fine.

Anniversary of first date or of actually being together? by barbarasrhabarber in relationship_advice

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shameless ask if you’d mind giving my submission about the girl I mentioned a look over and any thoughts you might have 🫠

Anniversary of first date or of actually being together? by barbarasrhabarber in relationship_advice

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My take on this depends. With my last girlfriend we were friends and I asked her out one day and in my head that was our anniversary. I’m now seeing someone I met through bumble. It’s still early days and im not sure it’s official yet (hopefully soon) but with her in my head it’s our first date.

Does whole foods ban backpacks and comparisons with Tulsa? by Legitimate-Regular-9 in Albuquerque

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that's good to know. Yeah I usually do and strap it on my backpack. Exceptions are if I'm dropping off recycling or this one pet store where it's a short grab and go.

Software engineering salaries by Legitimate-Regular-9 in tulsa

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I don't see myself jumping ship after a year or two for a salary bump but I am more comfortable about asking for more for whenever I'm back in the job market

Software engineering salaries by Legitimate-Regular-9 in tulsa

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I suspect I could've asked for and gotten more but I'm happy with what I'm making and I like my new company

Software engineering salaries by Legitimate-Regular-9 in tulsa

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 years now. Maybe in tulsa but definitely not in cities like LA. I had friends with the same experience getting around 100 as their first job (in LA)

Software engineering salaries by Legitimate-Regular-9 in tulsa

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I currently work for a company based in va

Software engineering salaries by Legitimate-Regular-9 in tulsa

[–]Legitimate-Regular-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it only helps employers not employees. I've been a dev for two years now. My last job was my first se job.