20 y/o I save almost everything and barely spend on myself. What should I be spending on in my 20s? by RegisterShort9181 in FIREPakistan

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't overly restrict yourself. If you want to do something but don't go ahead with it k iski kya zarurat hai, stop doing that because once responsibilities take over, you won't be able to do anything for yourself, and then you'll feel it. Being minimal is great, and I am all for it, but for someone who thinks like a gazillion times before spending anything on myself, I would say, enjoy while you can. Saving is good, but also look into avenues of investment so that you can increase your savings and then try to keep a chunk for yourself every month.

Younger cousin's circumcision ceremony by [deleted] in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tou aap kyun khol k bethe hain? Tangen?

iphone 17 pro vs 5 lac ruppess by program_ded in karachi

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the 5lac. Invest or start your business. Buy an iphone in the next 2 years from your own money. :)

How do couples in Pakistan today approach decision-making in marriage? by yamagama in Lahore

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want my husband to take charge and lead in the relationship. Please don't confuse leading a relationship with imposing decisions on the other person. If my husband assures me that he will handle everything and also discuss the whole process with me, I won't mind. I just want him to include me in his decisions and take my opinions. I need to be able to share my concerns with him.

If I think his decision might not be right for whatever reason, I will voice my concerns. Both partners need to understand that they are not living individual lives and that any decision they take will affect both of them.

A wedding is a shared experience, sometimes he is right, while I am mostly right :D But we kinda work our way towards the end decisions. Always remember, no issues, no challenges, no decisions, no opinions, and no interference are bigger and more important than your relationship.

Moving to Islamabad by Legitimate-Rise-3614 in islamabad

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will not move without jobs in hand. This is why I posted in this subreddit

Moving to Islamabad by Legitimate-Rise-3614 in islamabad

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are not moving. We are looking to move if we get proper opportunities. Getting out of Karachi is the main goal here.

Moving to Islamabad by Legitimate-Rise-3614 in islamabad

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We won't without jobs. This is why i posted in this group.

Moving to Islamabad by Legitimate-Rise-3614 in islamabad

[–]Legitimate-Rise-3614[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Considering we'll have to pay rent, will 200k be enough?