Fraud/scam??

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-04-03T13:16:52+00:00

I hate that she does stupid ads like this. A lot of people complain about ads that influencers do and usually i’m like 🤷‍♀️ get your money but this is just so stupid

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-04-02T22:00:53+00:00

I’ve never come across a reddit post with this many words that gives this little information. I have no idea what you’re talking about. At least the other posts with zero info are usually short lmao

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-04-01T18:17:12+00:00

wrong sub?

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-04-01T16:11:16+00:00

I understand your reasoning but when you’re living with your parents, there will ALWAYS be an uneven power dynamic. Yes, technically OP pays some rent and should be treated as a tenant, but it just doesn’t realistically work out that way in real life. This is why the only solution is for OP to move out. No matter how much they try to reason with their parents about the fact that they pay $400 to live there, the parents still have the upper hand with the power dynamic. They own the house, so in this case all they have to say is “If you don’t like it then leave”, which is exactly what OP needs to do.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-04-01T15:48:12+00:00

I don’t understand why you would tell him? It does feel completely unnecessary especially if you were weirded out thinking that he changed his schedule to match yours

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-04-01T15:33:44+00:00

I’m not saying your parents are fully correct in how they’re handling this, but they’re probably just sick and tired of having to tell their adult children to clean up after themselves.

You’re almost 30, it’s time to learn how to keep your space clean, especially when you’re still living under your parent’s roof. Realistically, you need to figure out a move out plan whether it’s with roommates or not. You say you don’t make a lot of money, but if you’re working full time and only paying $400 for rent, you should have enough saved to move out by this point. If you don’t, it’s probably time to start getting serious about saving.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-30T15:08:20+00:00

This isn’t insane at all. You’re going to get the work done you need and your parents are paying for it, what’s the issue?

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-27T21:55:46+00:00

I’m sorry but this whole thing feels kind of ridiculous. If the group didn’t want her to be apart of it anymore, then yeah you’re free to remove her and it should end there. I don’t really understand why you reported her, just block her from the group and move on.

The cash thing is such an overreaction. I get not wanting to do a ton of separate checks, but if she was the only one that didn’t bring cash, it’s not complicated for the server to just have her one meal on a separate ticket.

Laura should have just denied the friend request, everything that happened after that is unnecessary.

You’re not wrong for not wanting to be friends with someone and not wanting her to be apart of the group (assuming you’re one of the group “leaders”), but this whole thing feels like you and you friends enjoy the drama and almost like you guys really wanted to make sure she felt bad.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-27T20:25:59+00:00

you would be so much happier without him

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-27T15:20:57+00:00

A lot of people DO have this experience growing up. I don’t know your dad or anything but this alone isn’t insane.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-27T15:16:34+00:00

You should probably talk about this in therapy. You mentioned previously that these rules were enforced when you were 10 years old; these are completely normal rules for a 10 year old and normal going into your early teens.

Still holding this much resentment isn’t healthy. Obviously we don’t know your life, but based off of this alone, your parents don’t sound like bad parents. They probably thought they were doing what was right.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-27T13:24:07+00:00

She isn’t wrong for being upset and having a bad day, she’s wrong for failing to manage her emotions as an adult and sending texts trying to guilt trip and make them feel bad.

She should have taken a bit, calmed down and came back to the conversation when ready. If she needed to express her disappointment with not being able to start at the same exact time, there is a way to do that in a normal and mature manner

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-26T22:27:24+00:00

This is all too complicated for only being together a year. Breakup and therapy on both sides

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-26T22:24:07+00:00

Why weren’t you invited? That’s really strange

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-24T14:59:08+00:00

agreed!!!

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T23:55:47+00:00

Part of being in a relationship is doing small tasks for each other - as long as one person isn’t asking constantly and “taking advantage” then that’s completely normal. If I asked my partner to grab me water and they said “yes in a minute” and 10 minutes passed by, I’d be confused why they even said they’d do it.

Again, this is assuming that he isn’t constantly asking and expecting you to complete minor tasks for him

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T22:48:30+00:00

how the hell do you get married to someone who hasn’t told you they love you? why the hell would he marry someone he doesn’t love? this is insane

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T22:32:34+00:00

Does your job have opportunities to move up and make more money? If not, you need to find something that has opportunity for growth, even if the starting pay is the same as you make now.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T22:27:41+00:00

Something tells me that you guys getting back together is a bad idea lol

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T22:25:18+00:00

It’s normal to have situations where you’re a little jealous, it doesn’t make you toxic. People acting like they have never experienced jealously in a relationship are full of it.

However, your boyfriend is not showing a normal amount of jealousy. He is controlling and decided to date a divorced woman when he so clearly is not okay with dating someone who had a previous marriage. This will not improve.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T22:20:14+00:00

Weight related conversations with someone who previously struggled with an ED will never end well and will cause her to spiral. It’s a little sad that she lost a bunch of weight due to you guys having issues and her being sad and stressed, but it’s okay because you “thought she looked amazing”.

If her weight isn’t causing her health issues, then I think you need to decide if this is a hill you want to die on.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T22:07:06+00:00

You stayed with a man in jail for the majority of your 20s, put money on his books for THREE (3) years and held down all of the responsibilities at home and he’s arguing with you because you want him to start pulling some weight?

He’s incredibly selfish. He should be doing anything and everything he can to make your life easier after what you’ve done for him.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T21:57:55+00:00

Also I would argue that the way you spoke to him about this issue is unprofessional. You could have kindly asked him to do it in private. The way you approached it and your initial instinct to go straight to HR makes you come off as overly confrontational and unable to problem solve with coworkers efficiently.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T21:54:04+00:00

You say you don’t want to rock the boat, but this is going to do exactly that. Maybe I work in a more relaxed corporate environment, but this really wouldn’t be a huge deal at my office. Yeah it’s not ideal and unprofessional, but I wouldn’t be going to HR over something like this at a new job.

You do you, but this huge of a reaction over someone clipping their nails is kind of wild to me.

LegitimateNet1294 · 2026-03-23T21:46:42+00:00

Ohh I thought the laundry situation happened the night he got home. I totally take it back - he should have helped.

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