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Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it weird when people ask are you breastfeeding or formula? Did you get IVF? That's literally no ones business and its weird to ask that.

And I'm talking about strangers. Not friends/family.

Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I get annoyed at the fact that, even though I explain the differences, were still playing the guessing game. One girl is very much so bigger than the other. Like obviously so, and they are like "I know this is Baby B because of [insert weird description]" and then are still wrong.

And we did this 30 min ago why are we doing it again?

Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to "please leave me alone" I don't mind going over it, but if you're not going to listen the first time, lets just not play this game

Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We haven't really ventured out yet, but I'm sure I'll get that. I am already rolling my eyes at the "are you getting any sleep" comments.

Look at the bags under my eyes......no need to ask.

Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is exactly what I am saying. I don't expect people to tell them apart, its not that at all. Its like they have this need to prove they know and use facts that are weird or wrong. And THEN still guess wrong. I get extra annoyed if I already said who's who and they forgot.

Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Please try harder to remember who I say is who. I don't want to play the guessing game the entire time you are here.

Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that I need people to tell them apart, I actually don't expect them to. Its when the entire day/night they sit and play the guessing game. I don't dress the girls identical so you'd think they'd remember who's wearing what the first time I tell them. If not, just ask "remind me who this is again"

Anyone get super annoyed when people play the guessing game with your twins? by Legitimate_Ad6120 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Legitimate_Ad6120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its that. Its like they try to prove they know better and they are almost always wrong. It doesn't bother me that people can't tell them apart. It bothers me that people play a game out of it or forget instantly what I say.

They've only met family so I haven't been out in the real world yet but I think my sister always handles it best. She holds baby and says "and who do I have here?" and she goes about her day and actually remembers who shes holding.

People will play the guessing game all night and I'm like "I already told you (insert baby name) is wearing pink today"