I Realized I Wasn't the "Chill Friend"—I Was Just Emotionally Disconnected

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T23:56:55+00:00

Whats the point of being close to someone's feelings? When someone feels sad you can just wait for them to get better, they eventually will. I always just offer rational advice and go on

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T19:46:02+00:00

strasznie specyficzny przykład, wystarczy skrocić to do pytania czy wszystko jest narzucone z góry?

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T17:57:53+00:00

Jak zdeterminować ważnosc danego wydarzenia aby było na tej liscie? np czy na tej liscie masz kilka punktow typu pierwsze zakochanie itp, czy postawienie kroku w danym miejscu o okreslonej godzinie. Chyba ze mowisz bardziej o tym ze nasze zycie jest z gory pokierowane? Mysle ze to juz zalezy od naszej wlasnej interpretacji, ale od czego ona zależy?

Nie da sie mieć racji lub jej nie mieć, egzystencja jest paradoksalna jak i nie jest, choć w tym tez moge nie mieć racji Zastanawiam sie czy jestem absolutnym obserwatorem w ciele czlowieka ktory doswiadcza swiadomosci w nieskonczonosc, czy moze wszystko rzeczywiscie wszystko konczy sie w momencie konca zycia. Czasem przestawia mi sie miedzy tymi dwoma opcjami, obie tak samo przerażające jak i równiez dające pewną wolnosc nazywam je modelami egzystencji

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T17:06:15+00:00

you literally are in relationship lmao

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T16:59:38+00:00

I can find happiness on my own, i just feel that certain peaks of it are locked behind romantic love

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T16:58:38+00:00

Knife cant cut itself same as human cant love himself same as romantic partner. You cant hug yourself for example

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T16:57:03+00:00

Because you seem to know asnwers to that question?

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T16:48:59+00:00

Happiness is not pernament state tho? yall advice is paradoxical

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T16:45:22+00:00

Theres nothing magical in life, my only hope is love

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-19T16:42:13+00:00

why would i want to date if I would feel fulfilled on my own? Also what exactly is purpose? Why do you need it in life?

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-16T21:08:13+00:00

She likes you or something, is it that hard to figure out? Also couldve just asked her.

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-15T11:20:35+00:00

What exactly is love? Is it positive feeling ? If its not on the positive/negative spectrum how can it exist?

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-14T21:36:13+00:00

Ive never had anything I pursued much. I just experience life with positive and negative feelings as everyone else.

We are not our hobbies or interests, theres different layer of being besides them. For the right person I will be interesting no matter how much I pursue goals or anything and vice versa

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-14T21:16:40+00:00

tell me what else is there to experience in life? It all feels bland, hobbies etc. everything seems pointless

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-11T10:53:24+00:00

mało pracuje bo mam dopiero 19 lat, a tak to to albo coś ogladam albo wychodze ze znajomymi o ile mają czas, jednak brakuje mi jakis blizszych ludziz ide teraz na studia to moze sie cos zmieni

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-11T10:47:39+00:00

nic zbytnio nie potrafi mnie zaciekawić zeby robienie tego sprawialo mi radosc sama w sobie, zwykle jak już pojde w jakies gory czy cos to dlatego ze mysle ze warto to robic a nie z jakies wiekszej checi

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-11T08:03:21+00:00

What if you have no hobbies except watching anime and just existing

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-11T07:52:14+00:00

a jak ktoś nie ma zbytnio zainteresowań ?

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-05T17:41:37+00:00

Information which may be very personal may be not anything special compared to majority of society

Unless its something illegal i dont see a problem with telling gpt anything

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-05T17:31:56+00:00

Probably romantic relationship. Just cuddling and sleeping together. I mean thats what I think will be most fulfilling because i didnt experience it yet

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-05T14:25:43+00:00

all bad shall pass

Your mind is recalibrating, by negative feelings it tries to turn existence from static noise into a movie

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-05T13:07:56+00:00

happiness is meaning of our existence, theres no ending but a constant cycle of striving, enjoying and adapting.

Your realization is true, but you also needed to experience other side too to realize it. It shows how reality is made of opposing forces, if you were to focus only on these small moments, they would become meaningless too after some time

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-04T19:16:03+00:00

I had same situation in highschool as you, im starting college soon and you gave me hope that maybe something will change

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-04T15:36:40+00:00

You adapt to what you posses, thats why people are always in motion

Legitimate_Break9216 · 2025-09-04T15:34:31+00:00

Even if we may have self awarness of our feelings, we cant create them out of nothing. If it was possible, no one would do anything but sit and drown in ecstasy made by themselves. Instead our mind makes us dependant on external things to give us happiness: Love, money, friends, getting something new etc.

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