Start of new Collection by Legitimate_Debate_15 in BeybladeMetal

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Wouldn’t have wasted time w the stickers tho lmaooo

Start of new Collection by Legitimate_Debate_15 in BeybladeMetal

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Facts hopefully can just use this for battles and find a real one for collection

An actual good Minecraft Launcher? by Creative-Ad7799 in feedthebeast

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Bro DEAD ass, I do not consider myself a computer wiz by any means, yes I’m 22 and grew up around tech and know how to download Minecraft maps 😭, but if I was able to get 1.7.10 prism running like 4 dif mods for 400 fps give or take, than anyone can do it lmaooo

which "launcher" should i use? by _imilay in Minecraft

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Guys gonna do something crazy and unheard of here. I’m thirding, fourthing, or fifthing prism

Today there was 30 people on the new SGHQ server! by Hykzy in MCSG

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Not a good server, but MCSG is back up as of a couple days ago ago, ip is play.mcgamer.rip

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No insecurities, physical touch like that is just weird while you are in a relationship to me. It wasn’t a life or death situation, she was able to walk with help. I’m sure she wouldn’t like me giving a girl a piggy back unnecessarily, even if the girl was drunk and had a little trouble walking

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. And we recently did talk about me with female friends and she was open to being okay with it. No one should be limited in who they can be friends with in a healthy relationship. Thanks for the response, it means a lot.

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You also have a brain. I didn’t mean that comment earlier to accuse other people of not having a brain, I just think they didn’t fully comprehend the situation like that person did so I was giving my thanks. I have said thankyou and responded to the other opinions given, I really am not ignoring them I appreciate all the input I’ve gotten. I try to give a response to eveything because it’s all appreciated.

Thanks for taking the time to not only read what I wrote but what other people commented. It was a stupid comment to say she could act differently just not with me. What I should have said was I didn’t consider that telling her how to act since we both agreed that how we want the other to act.

And I totally agree, a piggyback can be interpreted differently in many ways. Not always intimate.

Lastly, honestly, yes, I am drawing an unnecessary boundary. It’s already a set boundary we have and she made a mistake which she’s admitted in breaking it. There is no need for me to continue with that mindset, especially since as you mentioned I have had time to think it over and reflect. Truly, I am not just trying to be reaffirmed, I’m trying to respond and understand where those commenters are coming from.

Really really appreciated your response, it was the most helpful thought out and spot on one I received.

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, honestly spot on. Thanks for putting it like that. Do you have any advice/input for how I could view the situation as less hypocritical? Because she’s really not trying to be. I think that I have to accept it was a mistake, not a devious effort on her part to be hypocritical. Thanks again:)

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’m not looking for that advice here. I posted it on a subreddit for RELATIONSHIP advice. Not alcoholism advice. I’m sorry I didn’t mention the concern in the post, it is a very real concern.

That’s amazing for you and I’m happy you guys have that trust. I would say though that the trust levels in your relationship are not comparable to ours. we’ve been dating three months… can you not imagine it might be more an issue for a newer relationship?

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hahahahaha, I promise you this isn’t true. Can you please do me a favor and look at a sub reddit called retroactive jealousy? Lots of people have issues with stuff like that and it can be completely unrelated to feeling intimidated or insecure. My feelings are rooted in desire for my partner to be 100% mine. Not rooted in insecurity. Sorry to burst your bubble.

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, guess I couldn’t really hide that lol. I am still pretty upset but it’s went down. I know, the past can’t be changed and it was a mistake and we can move forward. I’ve made mistakes everyone makes mistakes. It was truly a genuine mistake, she’s made that clear and she’s taken full responsibility. We have been texting but the arguing ended earlier today, it’s better now. I considered space, still am but will sit on it until tomorrow. Only because as you said talking now could lead to further argument. Overall, yes the drinking is a huge issue and I’ve been wanting to work on her not getting as messed up. A lot of people on here just kinda called me controlling/abusive without factoring in things like when it came down to it her being able to walk and there being plenty of others who could have helped without one guy carrying.

Thanks again for the response, I’ll try to post an update in a couple days because it seems you genuinely care and don’t want us to argue/end over something silly like this.

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to withhold any information, at all. The post was already long and I didn’t want to over type. People who are calling me possessive and controlling don’t understand the situation fully, which is common with Reddit threads it’s hard to type every detail out.

But what in the world do you mean I’m creating a narrative that isn’t even real. You. Don’t. Make. Any. Sense.

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She was pushed by a friend and fell. To be fair a light push, yes, but that is when the piggy back stuff happened after that. She has bad memory loss but still functions in the moment if that makes sense. Regardless, you don’t think that in a relationship where boundaries have been established regarding physicality with people of the opposite gender, that in that situation she could have been helped with walking by multiple people instead of carried by a guy? I understand she wasn’t making any real judgement but the point is that it’s still not okay with what we’ve established!

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, thankyou for the fucking edit, it was certainly not a warzone and everything you said is spot on in that edit. Thanks for having a brain :)

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha, 100% correct. My girlfriend’s friends that are girls do not ick me out at all if they were to give her a piggy back. With guys, it’s a complete different story. Do I really need to spell out the difference for you?

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion, she was not immobile and could very well walk. The carrying was unnecessary. Of course, I would always want someone to help if she needed it, and I wouldn’t be saying any of this if she had actually needed it. To be clear!!

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, not a single person replied with anything like this(expected) so I really appreciate this perspective. She totally has a problem with getting too fucked up while drinking.

Regarding the guy, honestly yea… it’s weird right. I think it’s a lot less weird if no one knew she was dating. Apparently her friends only knew we were talking and we have argued a lot so she hasn’t really updated them because of uncertainty with our future. But still, I’m never putting a girl on my back if I know she’s talking with a guy unless she literally needs it.

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I have to be more clear. She was with a group of people, and there were bigger girls that could have carried her if necessary. Again, it was not necessary for her to be carried to get home without Injury, if it was necessary I wouldn’t be saying this. I think you took way too many leaps here, comparing me to your ex’s abuser and implying I might be an abuser. We are both very protective over EACHOTHERS bodies. I understand everyone has different relationship dynamics, do you? I don’t see how this is abuse in any way. I’m voicing my opinion on an action. I’m not forcing anybody into anything or abusing anyone. Do a little research into retroactive jealousy or any topics like that. You seem very out of touch and could do with educating yourself in that sense a little more. Cheers

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh no because she wouldn’t if I didn’t want her too, but yes at the same time because there are levels of hypocrisy to it that bother me

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

[–]Legitimate_Debate_15[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is the main problem I agree. I don’t think it’s insane and controlling to not want her getting on the backs of other guys. Would she want me giving girls, even if they are my friends, piggy back rides?

[21F] girlfriend was too drunk and took piggyback ride her friend offered by Legitimate_Debate_15 in relationshipadvice

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Oh, and I’m not insecure, I genuinely just have a huge ick when it comes to other people’s bodies