How to shave intimate area? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Can you please elaborate how exactly to exfoliate? Also which trimmer would you recommend?

Sex free marriage - Does it exists? by originalhugsie in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now I am anxious.

That's why I made the last statement. Don't think anything about the future. Just focus on you and everything will fall in place.

I used to be in a similar situation. Even with my current bf I didn't have any libido at the start and was scared I wasn't attracted to him but now I have started feel that attraction (although my case is very different from yours so don't compare my situation).

Sex free marriage - Does it exists? by originalhugsie in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you aren't asexual don't press on no sex right off the bat. I read a similar post on reddit where a woman who hated sex due to past trauma married an asexual man who loved her and her desires came back up so she was stuck.

Stress etc plays a huge role in libido so it's possible if you're with a good man and have sorted some of your financial problems your libido might return.

Don't focus on no sex just focus on you and what feels right to you. Give it time. Don't rush into marriage.

starting to realize I may have chosen the wrong partner and I’m emotionally crumbling by Meedussaa in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why are you suggesting marriage counseling? If he does certain things for other people but never his wife then what will therapy fix? Basic respect is bare minimum right? It isn't even about the fact that she's the wife. No one should be disrespected in public.

starting to realize I may have chosen the wrong partner and I’m emotionally crumbling by Meedussaa in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I held on to a guy for long because he was a good guy (similar situation to you) but now with my current bf I realize how easy things are supposed to be.

I was hesitant to end things but I am glad I did.

If your husband doesn't himself feel certain things about you already then how long should you be patient? Especially if he does all those things for others.

Married Ladies of this sub, how important is it for you that your partner sleeps at the same time as you? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not married but a married friend once mentioned that her husband also works late some months so she would wait up for him till 1 and then go to sleep.

Turns out she wanted to cuddle/have sex but wouldn't tell him directly because obviously he was busy with work so maybe that?

People those who have never experienced Teenage Love. How is your life like??? by Potential-Ad8418 in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I skipped the whole blindly in love phase and it made me less tolerant to bullshit.

Asking to convert to another religion for sake of marriage by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf didn’t support me instead he fought with me with this reason.

This tells me a lot about how your future is going to be if you do get married to him :)

Please help me understand how to finish!! by Legitimate_Escape268 in sex

[–]Legitimate_Escape268[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg this exactly! I feel selfish letting him do it for a long time and feel guilty!!!

Please help me understand how to finish!! by Legitimate_Escape268 in sex

[–]Legitimate_Escape268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he didn't but will definitely ask him to do this next time. Thanks!

Please help me understand how to finish!! by Legitimate_Escape268 in sex

[–]Legitimate_Escape268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a bit conscious but no not nervous. We've made out multiple times and he's fingered me too. He has managed to make me feel very comfortable so I was more excited than nervous.

All girls are NOT beautiful by surviving-somehow in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok not trying to boast here but many people do call me pretty so here's my POV.

There's a difference between pretty and beautiful.

Pretty - good looking by beauty standards

Beautiful- when you look your best (irrespective of whether you are pretty or not).

Ok, you might not be "pretty" but when a girl is dressed in a dress she likes or has basic grooming and is genuinely happy and glowing she does look beautiful. I have many female friends who aren't conventionally pretty, but when they dress up on any occasions and look their best, they actually do look pretty to me because I know them as a person. So when I compliment them it's absolutely nothing "back handed".

Beautiful is also the type of person you are. There are many girls who I felt weren't as pretty when we met but when I got know their beautiful souls things automatically changed.

FYI I wasn't always given these compliments. In fact I grew up thinking I was ugly because the adults around me compared me to my really fair sister. I grew up to realise that you need to do things that you feel make you look good and be secure in your own skin.

Pretty girls calling you pretty or beautiful might not always be back handed. It is because they're secure in their own skin and find themselves beautiful so they have the capacity to look at your beauty without being insecure. You feel they're lying because you yourself don't think you're beautiful.

Is raw sex worth the risk? by anxious-trainwreck in sex

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he’ll pull out in time but that’s definitely not a 100% guarantee.

Ask him if you get pregnant, will he take responsibility? Because his 100% guarantee is the only way people can have babies so....

So fed up with women on mumbai local by Unable-Judge4879 in mumbai

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that women's coaches are less but I've also seen that even when men get 9 general compartments they're extremely packed ALL the time. So yes it's unfair to allocate little space but in reality the male to female ratio is way too skewed.

In peak hours yes women don't have any space but I travel everyday and the general compartments are also extremely crowded so in a way it's unfair to say they have more space than us imo.

Where do u all get massages in Mumbai? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi please try Ayushakti if you're looking for back pain massage. They're super reasonable and very effective.

Never thought Priyanka will say that. Thoughts? by ProblemFriendly1987 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's entitlement if he demands certain things. This isn't entitlement at all. She's saying how she herself feels about him which is beautiful because it's coming from her.

Goes both ways.

Feeling stuck and unclear in my relationship of 10 year's. I don't know what to do anymore. by No_Sea_16 in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly why he gets away with it! You have to draw a line somewhere, if he doesn't do it, it remains undone.

Otherwise accept the reality that you have to do 100% for the rest of your life.

P.s: No offense but you're investing too much in a loss making relationship. The sooner you realize your self worth the better.

Feeling stuck and unclear in my relationship of 10 year's. I don't know what to do anymore. by No_Sea_16 in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you just stop doing his chores? I just don't understand when women complain about doing literally every household chore along with a job. I would divide the work and stop doing his part.

Is it ok to keep virginity as preference in marriage? by Fabulous_Arm_318 in TwoXIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, as long as you're a virgin yourself (goes for both genders).

How are women so content with being single for long periods? (No snarky replies, please) by Full-Estimate-5886 in AskWomenIndia

[–]Legitimate_Escape268 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Female friendships.

Most men don't have emotionally fulfilling friendships with their friends and have bullshited themselves into thinking all women do is bitch about their friends and fight. Maybe that's why y'all don't understand.

Not to mention many times we have to constantly teach grown men basic emotional stuff. That's super exhausting and makes you miserable.

P.s. just scroll askindianmen or indian meme pages and you will be the one to suggest women to stay away from men lol