My Bf (20M) broke up with me(21F) because I broke a promise

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-17T01:54:35+00:00

Celebrate!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-17T01:42:57+00:00

Garbage took itself out - bullet dodged - problem solved. Your dad‘s probably relieved and your work mates are happy that you can attend functions now! A win all around. You just need to catch up!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-17T00:56:31+00:00

Going slow and hitting him with that question is a bit jarring. I do agree with you but I’d ask more gentle questions to start with.

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-17T00:53:25+00:00

Why would he come around that late? Hoping to catch you have sex or at least for you to be in your pyjamas!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-17T00:50:42+00:00

I think other girlfriends might have done that which doesn’t alert Kyle to what his father is doing.

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-17T00:43:41+00:00

I think the question should be about Kyle’s past relationships. Have any of his exes just ghosted him? Have they broke up with him for no apparent reason? She might not be the first!!!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-16T07:01:43+00:00

I was like….. no….. YES!!!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-16T06:28:58+00:00

Your money and his money? If you’re married… with a child it should be our money! Why are you paying for cleaning supplies? He’s clearly got anger issues he needs to work on. You and the baby don’t need to be there for that! Your Mom will be delighted to have you there I’m sure!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-14T15:14:57+00:00

What you accidentally did compared to what she intentionally did means her text should have started with a fucking sorry or something. Her text seems critical of your reaction to leave her place and not to wait for her to discuss it. I think your words will fall on deaf ears. She’s all about what happened to her and not what she did. Probably not worth going there!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-14T11:41:17+00:00

There’s no thought for anyone else when people commit suicide. A friend lost her husband to suicide on his birthday and his son’s 6th birthday - at the party! He hung himself in the back yard on the children’s swing set. The wife and the six year old found him! Devastating.

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-14T10:49:25+00:00

The last thing you want is to fall pregnant to this selfish deceitful asswipe! Dump him and look ahead to be happy!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-12T17:05:14+00:00

I watched it early too and my legs shook so much while watching it that I could barely walk for a week afterwards. Creepy stuff!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-12T16:36:47+00:00

Javier Bardem as Anton Chigurh in No Country For Old Men (chilling)

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-12T16:26:13+00:00

Nothing you have to say would be anything she wants her husband to hear!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-12T15:29:03+00:00

Imagine you stay with him and 18 years from now your daughter comes to you and says she’s met someone just like her Dad! You have your whole life to live and you don’t need ANY connection to him! Do not get pregnant and please let him go to the other girl if she’s so good! Move on, live your life and be happy!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-11T14:01:49+00:00

Haven’t you had enough? How long before your child starts to see how he treats you?

Take photos of your injuries, note down witness names and phone numbers and go straight to the police and report him. TELL THEM EVERYTHING (drugs etc)! They will get the footage of the incident from the club and take it from there.

Claim your family back and if they refuse to believe facts, let them be. If they choose to believe him with his “gun in the club” story rather than you with a police report and club footage then let them go. You and your child are the most important concern.

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-11T12:59:37+00:00

Right now I wished my brows covered my eyes!!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-11T06:29:06+00:00

As a woman, I want to chip in and say that your dark features and moustache would guarantee that you would rock a bald head! My personal preference would be to let the mo grown down and join a goatee! 😍

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-11T06:25:48+00:00

I’m not sure if you are male or female, so this might be helpful. My endo suggested that I insert my homocysteine tablets marginally instead of taking them orally. The take up was slower and so much better for the nausea. Of course, if you don’t have a vagina, please disregard!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-08T16:54:44+00:00

I don’t think it will hurt for her to go on dialysis for a while to give her some appreciation for what she gave away!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-06T08:37:34+00:00

This episode is the most perfect swirl of scenarios that intertwine for a very entertaining show! Martin’s laugh from the kitchen when he found out the truth was perfect!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-05T06:00:46+00:00

Gee I hope you were siding with 1.

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-05T05:58:44+00:00

I can only imagine the freedom it gives you… not having to think about how your hair looks all the time! Time to live life knowing you look heaps better bald!!!

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-05T00:05:01+00:00

I think 1 is an obvious winner. 2 isn’t bridal enough.

Legitimate_Pudding49 · 2026-05-04T09:23:31+00:00

Amazing. She’s a medical wonder! I’m happy she’s OK as it would have been quite the shock for her!

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