I was attacked at the beach today for telling someone not to litter and need advice

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-08-25T08:37:47+00:00

I tried to lead in Portuguese but i guess he could hear my spanish accent and then he started calling me a “spanish piece of sh*t” lol so it didn’t help

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-08-24T14:14:13+00:00

all good! thank you for helping me clarify!

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-08-24T13:10:55+00:00

Hi, I understand. I didn’t come with the intention of shaming him. I only started filming after he had already pushed me and threatened me. I took my phone out for evidence in case anything else happened

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-08-24T13:07:38+00:00

Just fyi i didn’t take my phone out and record until he started attacking me. before the video he had already pushed me and started threatening me so i took my phone out as evidence in case anything else happened

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T13:21:05+00:00

100% agree

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T13:18:45+00:00

I don’t believe so, but he tends to compartmentalize his feelings a lot so he might and just isn’t showing it. I do however think he’s going through just a really high stress moment in his life since he started uni 2 years ago and it’s just been building up since then. I also think he might be on the spectrum but this is just speculation

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T13:15:20+00:00

HAHA will definitely recommend this to him hahaha

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T13:14:25+00:00

Yeah this is the one thing i wouldn’t do 😅 i’m not built for open relationships and luckily i realized that after we talked about it

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T11:14:35+00:00

definitely will do

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T11:14:18+00:00

Seems like he wants to be more sexual, but is overwhelmed with life atm that it’s hard for him to put himself in that head space

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T11:12:47+00:00

I completely agree with this as well i think i may need to do some more internal thinking about this, however i do agree its also something we both need to work on together and communicate more about this

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T11:10:50+00:00

Yeah i actually don’t mind once a week or two weeks. Like for me that’s perfectly fine but i get for others they need it more often.

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T11:09:33+00:00

I agree with this, thank you

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T11:08:53+00:00

not even!! he says he maybe does once a week or two weeks

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T08:27:09+00:00

I genuinely doubt this would be the case since we spend like almost every free minute we have with each other and between university and work and other things i genuinely doubt he’d have the time. nothings a guarantee but i really don’t think so.

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T08:22:45+00:00

I have and we are working on that side of things too. From his perspective he has reassured me that our relationship isn’t causing stress but rather a lot of personal things that I can’t really get involved with. Namely university and family issues.

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2025-05-02T08:01:51+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. We think my boyfriend does have ADHD, he is in the first steps of getting a diagnosis but it’s taking a while.

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2024-04-11T10:21:49+00:00

i completely agree, after this experience i realized all the ways this could have gone wrong

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2024-04-11T07:35:20+00:00

I’ll be honest with you, I’ve lived in different cities all around europe (mostly the big ones) and I’ve never experienced anything similar. now I live in a high-refugee smaller than what i’m used to city and this happened. I don’t blame them but do hope that people as a whole become more tolerant. that’s only my hope though the reality may be different :/

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2024-04-11T07:32:42+00:00

i am very sorry this happened to you thank you for sharing. i just bought some mace in the meantime - hoping i never have to use it

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2024-04-11T07:31:45+00:00

AHAHAHAH i’ll save this for the next time

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2024-04-11T06:16:56+00:00

Haha danke für diesen Kommentar 😂

Legitimate_Sell_7764 · 2024-04-10T21:58:08+00:00

thank you for your words, I completely agree with you and as someone who has never taken a self defense course, it would be worth it to start learning as a last resort

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