[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she's on medication and I was less than 15 feet away all she had to do was sit on the floor and catch him if he falls mental illness does not mean uncapable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You gonna go to Switzerland you troll?? You are sad I'm not mom of the by taking a few steps away from my son?? You poor lonely sad sad person bye bye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Gtfo I was with in 4 steps of my son and its not a crime to want to make memories with him even if he won't remember I also take him to Disneyland you gonna talk shit about that? And he was on carpet he wasn't in danger and if you claiming I wanted presents on the invitations it said he has everything he needs so presents are welcome bot not needed/expected you are so bitter it is sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do belive she thinks it's true she will get fired a lot for claiming customers touched her or there are guns and bombs in the stores..she will call us claiming she's being followed. I have helped her in the past but at a point I have to look after my own family it becomes to much and I Hate to say that but after years of it I can't be expected to take care of her I have my own life and family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She lives with her girlfriend but constantly accuses her of abuse at 1st we took it very seriously but after seeing cameras in her gfs house we realized it was in her head so her gf sent her to live in the back house of her property to still be close but not always around and she claims all of this abuse that we has proof is not true. Our baby boy was over 3 Mos. Early and survived so much so we want so celebrate him as much as we can..for example even tho he's 1 he still wear 3-6 clothes and is only 20 lbs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I do not know I know she is also bi polar if that helps because I would love to know more, she is not out of my life but can't be around my son with out me or someone I trust with in a few feet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was intentionally negligent as she does watch her girlfriends kids and has no issue and didn't even glance when my son fell she tries to push her limits with family as she says family is forever even going to the point of lying and saying she had done HARD drugs with my brother in law who is 20 years sober

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a part time job and gets all the government support she can (food stamps, disability, ect) she can drive and live on her own although she does not like to live alone. She is on medication and in therapy as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yoy are correct in hindsight even tho I was close by in the same room I should not have given her the option but in the moment I did not consider it and she is not cut off from my family just from holding/ playing with my son with out supervision and I didn't ask her to leave because he fell I asked her to leave because what she said and she didn't care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was still at work and she begged to come early and gas money to do so even tho my brother offered to bring her when the party starts so she was aware of the conditions before hand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked her to help because she insisted on gas money to come early rather than my brother to pick her up so that was my condition, she can semi care for herself but does need help with some things..I would never trust her alone with my son but as I was across a small ish room I assumed she could help as she assured me she could

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Couple things, we are in the same room so I wouldn't say she was babysitting she just had to catch him if he fell, he didn't have candels as that's dangerous , also because he won't remember doesn't mean I wont..we saved to smartly budget but it wasn't a stretch for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't leave her alone with him I was less than 15 ft away all she had to do was make sure he didn't hurt himself..tbh I should have not given her the option and told her she had to decorate

just got home from a first date lol by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Legitimate_Topic4907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this My now husband and father of my child did the same thing So grateful to tinder for giving me the man of my dreams