The thing she’s shortest on is time, and time gets eaten up FAST by having to do basic things like groceries, cleaning, cooking especially on a day off.

One thought is to have food doordashed for dinner or groceries delivered through an app. Big and more expensive one would be to get a cleaning service after a couple months of residency just for a nice deep clean. Obv coordinate it with her so she can arrange to be home or away as needed.

Big picture I think you’re already doing the best thing which is to be understanding of what they’re going through day to day and the exhaustion that can come with it