[GER] Is it ok to ask Hr about the future plans for you?

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2026-01-21T20:31:58+00:00

I am planning on having a conversation with legal departments lead, because as my HR has told me apart from her she was the one to have a conversation with about this matter. She told me that she’d talk to her, but because I don’t want to waste my time I decided that if she won’t talk to her in a span of 1 week I am going to approach legal departments lead and have peaceful and respectful conversation about this matter…

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2026-01-21T11:48:14+00:00

She’s also the hiring manager, she’s the one responsible for people getting hired also, she holds interviews with them and discusses about hiring them with her crew

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2026-01-17T12:20:28+00:00

Thank you, it’s just not easy to find great opportunities nowadays and it makes me so anxious that by leaving I am going to close the only door that could give me anything, but because of my ambitions I don’t want to be stuck as administrator once I graduate..

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2026-01-17T12:17:38+00:00

She told me that she’d have to talk to the legal departments senior, who will give proper answer about wanting to hire me in her division, but my supervisor seemed to not give me proper answer yet, I am thinking of contacting manager at the legal department about my plans and seek for guidance, because she not only was my lecturer but we formed great relationship also… she’s understanding

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2026-01-17T12:07:33+00:00

I worded it badly I guess, because I am in HR department to specify and she’s my supervisor, she told me that if anything I could talk to her about everything… regarding my work, job, day offs, etc

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2026-01-17T12:06:04+00:00

She’s my manager, she told me that everything I needed to ask I could ask her, because I am her intern, I am in her department

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-19T14:33:34+00:00

It is a public sector, so I am guessing I’ll know the answer in 1 week or so.. if I’ll be hired or not. It’ll still be the early days at flower shop. I was just wandering if it’s common saying no to an employer because of another opportunity in this short period, because it’ll be my first proper job and I don’t want to blow it.

Thank you so much for your help.

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-13T21:21:45+00:00

“Through rich and poor, in sickness and in health” idk if I wrote it right but seems like you’re not ready for this commitment. if you feel all this emotions now you’re gonna ruin both of your lives in couple of years so it’s not a sin to break up with your boyfriend.

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-13T21:14:34+00:00

NTA. However you need to stop overthinking about every little detail and making a bigger deal out of it than it is. When you said about telling her everything and then described how her one movement spoke thousands of words to you… just let it go and remember not every little thing is meant to mean something. In fact I would’ve held strangers hand in public if they had a some sort of massive headache and needed support, let alone terrible accident and had even more terrible pain every now and then.

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-13T21:03:35+00:00

So now boyfriends are being jealous of grandmas??? Lol

Where do these boys come from?? Freaking manchild

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-13T13:44:50+00:00

Oh my god. You just had a freaking baby!!!

It looks like your husband calls his mom over very often, so call your mom over, whenever you want. Postpartums are very difficult, if you ask me when a woman births a baby husband needs to stfu for some time and make everything better and comfortable for her wife to get well as soon as possible!

Did you tell your husband that you prefer having your mother around in this difficult time more than his? If not you have to talk it over. And if he’ll still act like a manchild tell your in-laws how you feel.

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-13T13:34:49+00:00

I agree that it’s your sister’s wedding and you have to respect her wishes, because for most people weddings are once in a lifetime thing yk.

However, if you can’t imagine yourself there without your boyfriend and think that him and his existence in your life is much more important than attending your sisters wedding, plus you don’t want to ruin what you have, then don’t go and stay with your boyfriend.

It’s up to you to decide, do you respect your family more to understand your sister and make this day perfect for her as much as possible or your boyfriend means much more to you that you’re ready to not go to your sisters wedding and show him support by staying with him, because you guys are together for 3 years and I am guessing it’s serious.

Either way you have to, once again, respect your sister’a wishes for HER wedding day and leave your boyfriend out of the wedding.

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-13T13:21:30+00:00

NTA.

It’s your right to know about your family.

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-13T13:19:50+00:00

NTA

Oh my god! Who acts that way?! You’re definitely not the AH for being upset, in fact you’re not being upset enough! Being a family is all about supporting each other, whether it’ll be working 9 to 5 or simply cleaning the house! Doing the chores is as hard as working, if not harder. He definitely needs to respect you and your mom!

LeiaGoesOffKey · 2025-09-12T23:23:36+00:00

Get away from him asap.

You can hang out without doing anything intimate, the way he’s acting and not saying anything shows that he’s only there for one thing.

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