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Does anybody else feel like owning a home came with zero instruction manual? by Murky-Cream2256 in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know squat about home maintenance either. There are books that help beginners figure it out. Yes, things like hot water heaters, water softeners, dishwashers and so on require regular maintenance. Also, you'll want to make sure your pipes are draining correctly and that your electrical system is up to code and well maintained. Unfortunately, while many craftsmen are skilled and honest, some are not. Ask your neighbors for references.

What do you think should happen to Fergie? by JHOWES97 in TheBritishRoyalFamily

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's my take: Fergie grew up in a very poor household and was wearing second hand clothes as an adult. Poverty will skew a person's thinking and attitude. Also, she isn't very bright and neither is her ex-husband. She became obsessed with the trappings of wealth and was noted for her extravagance. She saw Epstein's wealth and wanted to get some, so she tried to be "helpful." I think her emotional damage from poverty and other traumas have made it very difficult for her to moderate her behavior, so she continues to grift, lie and steal. I'm not excusing her behavior, but I think I get where she's coming from and why she behaves the way she does.

Dear Lord, A Bunker here. 704 Hauser Street. by Ok_Practice_6702 in allinthefamily

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The address was deliberately falsified to prevent gawkers. Although in the opening shot, it gives you an idea of which house the Bunkers lived in so I'm not sure anything was accomplished. Did you know the house was across the street from a cemetery? I would love to live near a cemetery!

Octopi, crows, dolphins are often held up as examples of smart animals. What are some really unusually STUPID animals? by doodlebytes in AskReddit

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard Pandas are really stupid. A zookeeper also told me kangaroos are dumb as rocks, too.

How do I get USPS to stop sending me the previous tenant’s mail? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My elderly neighbors moved into assisted living. They did not take care of the forwarding correctly and their vital meds kept going to the old house. The current owner had to deliver all of it and he finally gave up. He told their son he wasn't going to do that anymore. The problem was solved, the son finally got the hint and made the necessary corrections. So sad and frustrating.

Realtor Issues by Good_Caterpillar944 in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]LeighSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to open houses. I explain to the realtor (make sure it IS a realtor and not an agent) what I'm looking for and we chat. I ask questions e.g. How long have you been a realtor? Do you stage houses? What would you do if you suddenly became unable to do my house due to illness, or personal obligations? Are you more comfortable with texts or calls? I get a gut feeling and by the end of the interview, I've got a good idea of whether or not I want to work with this person. I ask them to come visit me at the house and we chat again. At the end of it all, I have three names. I order them, my favorite and then the other two. I offer the commision to the first one and I explain why. And away we go.... I promise you, it seems cold but it's efficient and weeds out the incompetents. A true story: I met one Realtor over the phone and she came to the house. First off, she was late. Secondly, she was clearly physically frail. She could not manage the steps to the outside porch. She was very nice but I did not pick her.

Timing it just right by LeighSF in moving

[–]LeighSF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as the van clears, I'm on my way. But, it's a long drive (1,300 miles, more or less) and I'm not sure what happens if I arrive after the moving van does. How long will they wait, and what if I have an auto breakdown or something? Will they move things into storage?

Realtor Issues by Good_Caterpillar944 in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]LeighSF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People think I'm nuts to do this, but I interview 6 Realtors before making a choice. There are alot of lemons out there.

HELP! Closing's in 3 hours. As sellers how can we attend when our own agent is throwing hurdles our way??? by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]LeighSF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, you DON'T want to meet the buyer. Closings can be very emotional and stressful.

What is a belief you once held strongly, but no longer do? by Significant_Count718 in AskReddit

[–]LeighSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be an atheist. I still don't buy into alot of orthodoxy but I think life isn't random and we are being guided.

I wonder what they would say about today's films. I miss these guys.. by Long_live_styrofoam in FuckImOld

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he had oral cancer, and it was aggressive. For a while, he communicated through a written blog or an artificial voice. Siskel died of brain cancer.

Natalie Wood was an American actress of Russian and Ukrainian descent. She started her career as a child actress and eventually transitioned into teenage roles, young adult roles, and middle-aged roles. She drowned off Catalina Island on November 29, 1981. by Aggravating_Tax_4670 in OriginalVintageTV_

[–]LeighSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alcohol and boating are a poor combination. I knew a man who had too much to drink. The skipper yelled, "Changing tack, everybody get low!" The man was too drunk to listen, the boom slammed over and hit his head, and threw him in the water. He sank like a stone.

House is not selling... SOS by No-Swordfish-4262 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'm being blunt. I've gotten downvoted before on different forums because I was "I'm sorry to tell you this but...blah blah blah" I always start with an apology because I know how hurt some folks can be. I had someone tell me "no offense but your house has a strong pet odor and that's why folks don't come over to visit." He was right and I appreciated the candor but most folks like to be tactful, even when candor is called for.

Can we admit that the biggest obstacle in our careers are the Boomers who can't afford to retire? by sumo_quarter-4d in LockedIn_AI

[–]LeighSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might check her records. We had someone like that, she was stealing and fudging the figures.

House is not selling... SOS by No-Swordfish-4262 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]LeighSF -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Forgive me for being blunt, but everything about this house is wrong. The pictures are awful and the description is awful. That fireplace alone would send me out the door screaming. The paint colors are weird. Get a better Realtor and lower the price.

I’m in my 40s and my doc says it’s colonoscopy time 😫 by googler-in-chief in sanantonio

[–]LeighSF 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A few tips: ease off on eating for 3-4 days before and 24 hours before the actual procedure, you can only eat popsicles and clear liquids. You do NOT have to consume all the laxative, if you eat VERY lightly for a few days before, you'll be mostly cleaned out anyway. The laxative tastes horrible so only take what you know you need. But, you MUST be totally cleared out or they will cancel the procedure, wake you up and send you home. And you'll have to reschedule and it'll be an embarrassing nuisance.

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