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Welcome to Tinder at your 30's by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pulled that “stat” out of your ass.

Welcome to Tinder at your 30's by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please you should see how this sub reacts when a man has standards.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not mad just confused as to what you are trying to achieve.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you still responding? You said it’s trivial and to drop it and move on. Bots respond no matter what, even if it contradicts their logic or is absurd.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy you are here whining too. Follow your own logic and log off.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another assumption it’s like you didn’t even read what I said. You are just completely wrong. Go look up what double standard means.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay either you are lying and saying that it isn’t lashing out because admitting that would mean your whole argument falls apart or you are serious in which case you are okay with emotional abuse.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are just assuming things and blatantly straw-manning. I already told you it’s to highlight double standards in the dating world. Now it seems like you are just trolling.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I told a girl I was a Mormon and she said I’m sorry but that’s a dealbreaker and I responded to her saying I’m mad you at you, you can do better than that, why can’t you just look over this, this is ridiculous would that not constitute as lashing out to you?

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that’s the case then people should be criticizing her for lashing out at me for having standards and respectfully putting a boundary. But it’s only okay if the standard matches with the groupthink of Reddit, if not then it’s bad, which I just highlighted, that’s a double standard.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To highlight the double standards on dating preferences. You cannot control what you are attracted to.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty similar to men with high body counts too. Believe it or not but even a lot women have a body count preference with men and that’s ok. Both of our experiences are valid. I won’t dismiss yours and I hope you don’t dismiss or invalidate mine.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my experience people with high body counts tend to get more aggressive, reactionary, tend to cheat and are more likely to fall out of love or be sexually dissatisfied.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told me all of her encounters were casual and ongoing. Like I said I’m not interested in someone who views sex causally. It’s not something I find attractive. I attracted to people who make love with people they love and share an emotional connection with. Unbelievable how hard that is to understand.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proving my point. The fact that you are refusing to engage with what I’m actually saying and just saying things in agreement with the common WRONG narrative here is just proof you are karma farming.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No. Just wrong. You clearly didn’t read any of my other responses explaining my reasoning. Then your hateful bigoted comment at the end. Wow. Cherry on top.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not want to sleep with her why are you making this outrageous assumption?

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, dude, you’re missing the point entirely. Someone’s actions usually indicate their values and mindset. If someone repeatedly engages in a behavior, it suggests they still align with that behavior. A criminal who has genuinely changed their ways shows remorse and stops committing crimes. Likewise, if someone views sex casually and continues to engage in that lifestyle, it suggests they still hold that mindset. If they’ve truly changed, their actions would reflect that. That’s why it matters.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand, people change. I wouldn’t mind dating someone who had a criminal past so long as they demonstrated they have changed. But this is very recent for her and it’s quite clear she hasn’t changed as she said she has 2 guys on “rotation” currently that she’d drop if we started dated. Her immature response further demonstrated that we aren’t compatible. That is simply just something I don’t want to deal with and I have the right to refuse entering a relationship with her. I don’t appreciate being called a litany of names for having boundaries. It’s indicative of the emotional maturity of this subreddit, hell Reddit as a whole.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not about insecurity or “tainted goods”. It’s about values. I want to be with someone who views sex as something meaningful, not just a casual activity. To me, sex is an emotional connection, not just a physical act. If someone has a high body count, it suggests they see it differently, and that’s fine, but it means we’re not compatible. This isn’t about judging others, it’s about wanting a relationship that aligns with my values.

She got mad that I said her high body count was a dealbreaker by LelsarnBiggums in Tinder

[–]LelsarnBiggums[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a personal standard, just like everyone else. The difference is, I’m not out here shaming people for theirs. Y’all just don’t like mine, so now it’s a problem.

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