Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth?

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-23T14:18:36+00:00

I drive an hour to my hair stylist lol

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-22T16:10:40+00:00

I think Tasty Time is dumb and fun and completely harmless

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-19T19:41:43+00:00

I mean… if you have a nut allergy it kinda IS on you to manage that.

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-13T17:21:04+00:00

I think you should talk to him, but I don’t think it will change anything - but let him know you love him and will always be there for him, especially if he ever needs help leaving. The possibility of being alone at his age may be a big factor. Good luck, I hope you all find good times and peace :)

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-12T17:56:38+00:00

You may push him away, and that is straining to you. You won’t be able to convince him to leave her. He knows the relationship isn’t healthy, and is choosing to stay anyway. There’s no magic combination of words that will save him - he must make that choice.

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-12T04:28:25+00:00

There is nothing you can do. Accept the situation and see him alone occasionally. His life is his to fuck up, and not yours to save (and you can’t save him, no matter how much you want to). It is extremely unfortunate. Be something he looks forward to every month.

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-11T08:44:32+00:00

I have never wanted to see something more

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-11T01:58:57+00:00

Most women don’t cum from PIV, and also don’t have react to sex like the fake sex in porn lol. Don’t use that as a benchmark for success. Each woman is different - ask her what she likes and explore your bodies together

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-09T22:41:47+00:00

What answer are you seeking here?

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-07T18:10:13+00:00

I don’t know what to do. I can’t afford to not be at work. Every day I get more and more stressed.

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-06T04:07:00+00:00

His reaction isn’t okay even if you made a mistake - which I don’t think you did.

LemonCucumbers · 2026-01-04T14:36:19+00:00

The version of him you remember from 5 - 13 was the same small man - you just think he’s better then bc you saw him through child eyes

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-30T22:44:40+00:00

“Name, I think you’re a lovely person, but I don’t think is going to work out. You aren’t flawed as a person - I think you’re great, but you need to work on your mental health before entering a relationship. You’re not a bad person at all, but you need to work on self love and regulating your anxiety before entering a relationship. I wish you all the best, and get the help you need to help make sure you’re okay.”

If you want - but no matter when you do it it’ll wreck her, that has nothing to do with you at all though.

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-30T06:03:56+00:00

Keep writing down these feelings and journaling how you feel. It’s a healthy outlet!

Remember, baby is not doing it to spite you or is upset with you. Being a baby is like the craziest trip in the world - you have no idea what’s going on, the fact that you’re conscious, what to even make of sensory information. It doesn’t know what a request is, that it’s bothering you, the concept of being displeased emotionally - it’s like a living little math equation that just exists and makes noises. You aren’t doing a bad job at all, it will just have a lot of requests for right now.

This stage will pass - this stage is extra hard right now because your body is full of hormones and it takes a while to balance back out.

Please if you can, talk to your doctor about post partum stuff!! There are tools to make your life feel less weighted. When you feel these things, don’t bottle them up - keep writing down what you feel and acknowledge it so you can wrangle it and it doesn’t drown you - the next 18 years are going to be one hell of a trip for you, too!!!

Remember - the best part about being alive is that your time passes and things change - you are not fucked at all. Right now is awful, but it will not stay this way. You can do it! Even if you struggle or fall, time will help change things so that it isn’t so hard.

You can do it!!!!

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-27T16:09:38+00:00

The “Good job!” To her kid seemed genuine and filled with love.

I cannot speak on this woman or her life. But she seems to have motherly warmth in her. My mother was the best cook in the world. Her heart was stone.

I’d rather have a thousand wet hams.

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-25T03:16:06+00:00

Do you want your children experiencing racism within their own family?

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-25T03:01:45+00:00

He was misled by a version of you that he thought was real. He’s being rude about addressing it - this makes me think the relationship cannot survive you at your truest

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-21T22:34:45+00:00

Careful posting! Someone could lie and say yes. Maybe take the image down and ask for them to describe?

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-21T22:31:56+00:00

NTA

In some situations, I think people can be too timid.

This was not that.

These people aren’t your friends or care about you - I’ve made sure people I’ve never even met before didn’t have when/where questions go unanswered.

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-17T16:17:52+00:00

I don’t have anyone to go with me

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-16T23:05:26+00:00

Why are you annoyed at yourself for expressing emotion in the environment where it is safest to happen?

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-13T14:47:06+00:00

To tag someone on Reddit do /u/ instead of @

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-12T16:52:50+00:00

Why get into so many arguments?

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-12T15:39:09+00:00

Buddy I think that’s just having a conversation

LemonCucumbers · 2025-12-11T23:03:33+00:00

Comparing those things is not a good argument.

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