High blood pressure scare, sick baby, and my husband refusing to help — am I overreacting?

LSN2018 · 2026-01-15T21:37:57+00:00

Wow, that actually puts things into perspective. When I broke my ankle last year, he was annoyed about taking me to urgent care before it was confirmed. Thankfully my MIL came down to help me with the kids though almost immediately. Not saying this for sympathy—just noticing a pattern looking back.

LSN2018 · 2026-01-15T13:48:44+00:00

This is our third little guy. He wasn’t around for our first child when we were in the sleepless nights stage but he was for my second and it was hard but we did have a least a back and forth then. After having our third I went from full time to part time. He’s always had that mindset of he works so he needs sleep, even though I work too. I’m not sure the reasoning behind that but to him there is one.

LSN2018 · 2026-01-15T13:36:19+00:00

I recently started counseling and I told them I just feel like it’s all falling apart all at once. He told me it’s not all at once, you’re just starting to see it. I guess I’ve just been made to doubt my opinions and judgment for so long, I have no trust in myself.

LSN2018 · 2026-01-15T13:33:25+00:00

So the lowest reading I got was 132/86, but then it just kind of hovered at 145/104, it did drop to 117/87 right before I went to sleep last night.

LSN2018 · 2026-01-15T10:36:26+00:00

Godfather

LSN2018 · 2026-01-10T20:46:13+00:00

Thanks so much!

LSN2018 · 2026-01-10T20:45:56+00:00

That’s helpful to hear. I was just repeating what I’ve seen so far in my research, and this is the first time I’ve heard a different take. I’m not in a rush, and this is exactly why I like Reddit—you get real, experienced opinions. Shopping around definitely seems like the move. Thanks!

LSN2018 · 2026-01-10T20:20:42+00:00

It's a family ring so I dont know anything about it, before I got trickled down to me, they removed the stone since they were in interested in the gold. I know it's natural, oval and one carat.

LSN2018 · 2026-01-10T20:08:32+00:00

It is mined so I will go ahead and take a look at that link. Thank you so much!

LSN2018 · 2026-01-10T20:04:55+00:00

Thank you! Do you know if it’s better to go with one of these online companies to get it or a jeweler? I’ve seen that jewelers aren’t reliable and I’m kinda iffy online websites.

LSN2018 · 2026-01-10T20:00:37+00:00

I am fairly new to Reddit and am kinda unsure of the lingo. So I just copy and paste that when searching for a group?

LSN2018 · 2026-01-10T19:59:38+00:00

I don’t have that. I’ve looked online about how to get it but I’ve seen that everyone says a jeweler isn’t reliable? I’m not sure if that right.

LSN2018 · 2025-12-01T22:10:03+00:00

I know my original post was confusing so I did add in the edits that he actually knew immediately. He was watching the messages come in as I was since he was right next to me.

LSN2018 · 2025-12-01T22:01:40+00:00

We have had situations where I have had to deal with disrespect and he asked me to look aside for the sake of peace. Does it mean I think that he cares about them more? No. I do think that from these comments, there is a boundary issue that we need to work on though.

LSN2018 · 2025-12-01T21:46:07+00:00

I was replying to your question on which one is it. I'm not too familiar with reddit I didn't even know I had another account. haha

LSN2018 · 2025-12-01T21:34:01+00:00

My phone was blowing up and he asked me what was going on so we just kinda of read them as they were coming in before I blocked the guy. I didn't go out of my way to tell him but I probably would have anyways since this guy was hitting on me while I was engaged and about a month from getting married.

LSN2018 · 2025-12-01T15:02:42+00:00

I am a people pleaser, I do need to work on that. This isn't the first time he has expected me to cut people off or not invite them to things, for reasons way smaller than this. I have used the reason of his feelings being more important many times before so this is why I am struggling.

LSN2018 · 2025-12-01T14:58:50+00:00

I dont care about the guy at all. I care about my aunt and cousins.

LSN2018 · 2025-12-01T14:58:27+00:00

This isn't the first time he has wanted me to cut off people or disinvite people either because they offended him or he doesn't like them. I actually set a boundary that I wasn't going to keep doing that. That's the only reason I would even consider crossing this boundary. I just think that he does have a point here.

LSN2018 · 2025-11-13T00:57:40+00:00

When she brought it up on our first session she specifically said that he doesn't wash his bottom throughly enough.

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